Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.1.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Making Life a Bliss Complete Honest and heartfelt thoughts and stories about home, family, love, faith, and personal growth. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://ablisscomplete.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [I never knew I could love a chicken.](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-never-knew-i-could-love-a-chicken/) - I never knew I could love a chicken, but these past five days with a baby chick that Kamren called Diego, I will cherish my whole life through. It’s funny because at first, I wasn’t thrilled to have baby chicks in the house. It was never in the plan for our family. But Saturday afternoon, - [Our Fight with Carolina Custom Homes of Burlington](https://ablisscomplete.com/our-fight-with-carolina-custom-homes-of-burlington/) - For five years, this company has been in our minds often, and not for good reasons. I want to share our story, especially for local people, who may be looking to build a home in the near future. If you don't have time to read the whole thing, please just know that we, along with - ["Being Mrs. Banks"](https://ablisscomplete.com/being-mrs-banks/) - When I was a child and young teenager, I was very shy and unsure. In middle school I was introduced to theater classes, and I fell in love. I took classes all through high school and some in college too. I can’t really describe the joy and fulfillment that I felt from learning how to - [All Are Alike unto God](https://ablisscomplete.com/all-are-alike-unto-god/) - I am a much different person than I was 10-15 years ago. Now, I have always been a kind person who could befriend and love anyone, even if their beliefs or lifestyles were quite different than mine. That’s something that I have always felt was a gift from God. In fact, some of my most - [Embracing Humankind](https://ablisscomplete.com/embracing-humankind/) - **Note: I have shut down these pages for now. I didn't get enough engagement. However, I am more than happy to start it back up again if there is interest. I really believe in it; I just didn't want to do it alone. When my son, Casey, got home from his service mission in June, - [I Fell in Love with An Unauthorized Immigrant](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-fell-in-love-with-an-unauthorized-immigrant/) - My name is Mandy Al-Bjaly. I was not born with this last name, but it is a name I chose to take upon myself in March of 2010 when I married Jad Al-Bjaly. I wrote the story of our courtship and marriage on our fifth wedding anniversary. It was very detailed with lots of - [New Books for the Princess in Your Life](https://ablisscomplete.com/new-books-for-the-princess-in-your-life/) - When my daughter, Eve, turned 1 year old, I wrote a blog post just for her called "Why I Call You Princess." Last year, I was reading it and thought it had the potential to be a great book, so I got busy writing. I worked on it off and on for many months. I - [The Worth of Souls is Great](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-worth-of-souls-is-great/) - I gave a talk in church yesterday. My husband, who asked me to speak, let me pick my topic. As I thought about what I wanted to speak about, topics like charity, worth, and peacemaking came to my mind. I decided to speak on the scripture, "The worth of souls is great in the sight - [Reminiscing about a miracle](https://ablisscomplete.com/reminiscing-about-miracle/) - Since yesterday my mind has been filled with memories of my youngest baby, who is one year old today. I have felt sad that he is growing up so fast. I have also felt excitement about celebrating this wonderful milestone today. Mostly, though, I have felt an overwhelming gratitude to my Heavenly Father for the miracles - [How Partisan Are You?](https://ablisscomplete.com/how-partisan-are-you/) - I have been thinking a lot about political partisanship lately. It seems to have gotten more and more extreme in the past few years. I have seen how it can hurt relationships, fill people with unhealthy anger, fear, and dread, and even cause people to ignore their moral compasses. I have changed a lot over - [Bliss Within a Mess](https://ablisscomplete.com/bliss-within-mess/) - Here is a little poem I wrote one day in Feb 2015 about a real experience with my kids and dog. :) The baby is hurt and cries for me. He runs to his fallen lunch plate, then tearfully reaches for me to hold him. I hug him, kiss his little face, and then gently - [My Favorite Love Story](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-favorite-love-story/) - Today is Jad's and my fifth wedding anniversary. I am so grateful to call him mine. When we were newlyweds, I wrote about our courtship. I think our story is grand. Here it is: Jad and Mandy met at a YSA dance in Apex, NC on April 3, 2009. Mandy had a boyfriend at the - [New Book Coming: The Prayer of a Little Hero](https://ablisscomplete.com/new-book-coming-the-prayer-of-a-little-hero/) - Can I first just say how much I adore writing? I have loved writing my whole life. Many of my friends in school would playfully scoff at me when I said I preferred writing essays over doing multiple choice questions for tests. I was in the minority for sure, but essays filled me with excitement - [I Will Be a Stonecatcher for You](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-will-be-a-stonecatcher-for-you/) - Before I begin writing what I wish to say, I want you to understand that what I share in this post can change your life if you allow it. My life has already been changed. If you are someone who feels discomfort, or even fear, dread, or anger when discussing the LGBTQ+ community, this post - [Truth, Civility, and Christlike Behavior](https://ablisscomplete.com/truth-civility-and-christlike-behavior/) - My eyes have been wet for quite a while after reading comments from someone I love accusing me of indulging in “fake news.” You may be wondering why that would bother me so much. Well, it bothers me deeply for two reasons: I am incredibly passionate about the truth. I purposely seek out news sources - [Five Times the Holy Ghost has Comforted Me Directly or Through Others](https://ablisscomplete.com/five-times-the-holy-ghost-has-comforted-me-directly-or-through-others/) - On August 18, 2024, I gave a brief talk in church about experiences I have had where I have felt the Holy Ghost comfort me. It was so beautiful to ponder on my life as well as read through old blog posts I have written to find some of those experiences. In my talk I - [It's Not Easy Being Turbulent](https://ablisscomplete.com/its-not-easy-being-turbulent/) - I have come to enjoy personality tests more and more over the years because they help me understand more about myself and others. The one that is the most accurate one, at least for me, is created from the Myers Briggs Theory, or 16 Personalities. I am an INFJ, or Advocate, like Mother Teresa, Martin - [Someday we will understand](https://ablisscomplete.com/someday-we-will-understand/) - Note: This was my perspective at the time I wrote this post. It is ever-changing and is no longer completely accurate here. I have a brother who is funny, kind, intelligent, musically gifted, a friend to all, and a very supportive and loving uncle and brother. He is someone I respect and love with all - [Choose to Be a Gift Giver](https://ablisscomplete.com/choose-to-be-a-gift-giver/) - Fear. Frustration. Depression. Fury. Loneliness. We feel a lot of those feelings in today’s world: Fear for our safety, and that of our families and friends. Frustration at the blame games, racism, arguments, persecution, name calling, and lies of those around us, including our leaders. Depression over the repercussions of wicked choices in this world. - [What Do We Do?](https://ablisscomplete.com/what-do-we-do/) - May I state the obvious? I am not black. Quite the opposite. I am white, but may I state something that isn't quite so obvious? That isn't stopping me from being in tears after reading about Alton Sterling and Philando Castile - two black men with loving families, who were brutally killed by police officers this week. - [A Message for Our Day](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-message-for-our-day/) - I started a blog because I felt that the Lord wanted me to share whatever experiences and wisdom and testimony I have for the betterment of others. I have felt Him guide my hand over and over again, and putting ideas into my mind and heart that I just knew I had to write down. - [Of Race and Words](https://ablisscomplete.com/of-race-and-words/) - Black Lives Matter, All Lives Matter, Blue Lives Matter, I Don’t See Color, White Privilege… These are just words, phrases. Yet, they elicit a strong response in most of us, and probably in different ways for different reasons. Assumptions are made when people use these phrases, yet intentions may vary greatly. Assumptions are also made - [Another Take on "God Doesn't Make Mistakes"](https://ablisscomplete.com/another-take-on-god-doesnt-make-mistakes/) - I hear many Christians say, “God doesn’t make mistakes.” If used with loving tones and intentions, this can be a true and glorious statement. The key word is "if." To help understand intent, we need to go further into the statement. Let’s try using it in relation to many of God’s creations and gifts and - [My Buzz about Lightyear](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-buzz-about-lightyear/) - If I had a genie that could grant me three wishes, one of the things I would wish for is that our society would stop making every decision by every individual or entity political. That may sound like a strange wish, but I have seen that as we do that, our opinions and views are - [Who Would Be the Best President of the United States](https://ablisscomplete.com/who-would-be-the-best-president-of-the-united-states/) - The news right now is filled with stories about the U.S. Presidential candidates. TV is filled with ads that promote one candidate, while often putting down others. Some citizens know exactly who they are voting for, and others are struggling to find anyone to stand with. I have pondered a lot about the type of - [God Bless America, My Home Sweet Home?](https://ablisscomplete.com/god-bless-america-my-home-sweet-home/) - Home sweet home is what America is called in this familiar, beautiful, patriotic song. But, sweet isn't the word I would use to describe it, at least based on the words and behaviors of many of my fellow Americans. I must ask you with all respect to please stop. Stop the judging. Stop the hating. Stop the arguing. Stop - [Separating the Truth from the Lies](https://ablisscomplete.com/separating-the-truth-from-the-lies/) - For there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations, who are blinded by the subtle craftiness of men, whereby they lie in wait to deceive, and who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it. (Doctrine and Covenants 123:12) This verse of scripture by the prophet Joseph Smith weighs - [The Truth Shall Make You Free](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-truth-shall-make-you-free/) - Today is an anniversary of a very important date. Normally when we think of anniversaries, we think of a happy occasion. Sadly, today’s anniversary is anything but happy. Today, January 6, 2022, is the one-year anniversary of the horrifying attack on our nation’s Capitol by armed insurrectionists who violently attempted to overthrow the peaceful counting - [Preparing to Vote: A Way to Transform Our Hearts and Minds](https://ablisscomplete.com/preparing-to-vote-a-way-to-transform-our-hearts-and-minds/) - Are you excited to vote in the upcoming mid-term elections?? Well, maybe excitement isn't the right term, but I hope we think about it as an opportunity to make positive change. I honestly didn't used to care much about voting. I usually skipped the mid-terms and all other local elections. I would only vote in - [The Cries that Go Unheard](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-cries-that-go-unheard/) - Sometimes you just feel that you have to write about something. I feel that way tonight. I am writing about something I am completely passionate about. Why have I not written about it before, you ask? I didn’t feel compelled to. Now I do. Many people who are passionate feel the need to spout out - [How General Conference is Shaping My Vote this Election](https://ablisscomplete.com/how-general-conference-is-shaping-my-vote-this-election/) - I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and have been my entire life. Twice a year, my family and I spend a Saturday and Sunday watching several sessions of General Conference, a worldwide conference where we listen to prophets, apostles, and other men and women called of God speak - [Becoming an Informed Pro-Lifer](https://ablisscomplete.com/becoming-an-informed-pro-lifer/) - I am pro-life. For all of the elections I have been old enough to vote in, I have used this conviction as a major and main factor in choosing my president. Thus, I have always voted Republican, and have felt a duty to do so as a defender of the unborn. Earlier this year, though, - [My First Children's Book](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-first-childrens-book/) - Update: Here is a link to The Dandelion. It is available as a Kindle e-book and as a paperback. The Dandelion - Kindle edition by Al-Bjaly, Mandy. Children Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. I know I just published my first novel less than a month ago (Likening the Book of Mormon War Chapters to Your Life: - [I Wrote A Book!](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-wrote-a-book/) - Update: Here is the link to my book! It is available as a paperback, hardback, and Kindle e-book. The e-book is exactly the same as the printed copy, but you will need a pen and paper to answer the reflection questions. Amazon.com: Likening the Book of Mormon War Chapters to Your Life: A Study Journal: - [Your last name is a part of you.](https://ablisscomplete.com/your-last-name-is-a-part-of-you/) - I wrote this article for a new website, mum.info. Before I submitted it, I had Casey read it. He said it was beautiful, and he started to cry. When I asked him what was wrong, he said he wasn't sad, but that he had felt the Spirit. He said reading my words helped him remember - [Finding Joy in My Circumstances](https://ablisscomplete.com/finding-joy-in-my-circumstances/) - With apology in his eyes, he kissed my cheek and neck a little too warmly, and then told me how sorry he was for what he had done to me. He knew it was too late to change anything, but regret ached in his voice. My new ex-husband was mourning the loss of his wife - [Murmurings and Medicine](https://ablisscomplete.com/murmurings-and-medicine/) - Jad and I were very worried about Rigel Tuesday morning. He had a lot of swelling, discoloration, and pain on a sensitive part of his body. We strongly felt that we needed to take him to the doctor. When we got there, I was unpleasantly surprised to find that I had to pay $100 for - [The Al-Bjalys in Disney World](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-al-bjalys-in-disney-world/) - Remember how we won a trip to Disney World? Well, February 29-March 6, 2016 was the week we got to visit the Happiest Place on Earth. Here is how it all went down: Monday - Traveling to Orlando! The magic started early – right after we checked our bags, in fact. As we turned around to ride - [When you feel like you just don't belong](https://ablisscomplete.com/when-you-feel-like-you-just-dont-belong/) - I don't belong here. Have you ever felt that way? I have. It feels terrible. You just want to crawl into a hole to hide from embarrassment, shame, or ostracism. And then after you crawl into the hole, you want to dig your way out so you are far, far away - [The Faith of a Child](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-faith-of-a-child/) - Bad guys are a hot topic in our house, usually because our boys love to pretend to be heroes. Rigel is a little different, though. He doesn't just pretend to be a hero - he really wants to be a hero. He wants to be a police officer when he grows up, and he always - [The meeting every family should have](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-meeting-every-family-should-have/) - **Looks like I started this 7 years ago on January 9, 2017 and never finished it. Pushed publish by accident, and here we are! Sorry for any confusion haha! Our area of North Carolina got several inches of snow and ice this past Friday. Even three days later, it is still here preventing most from - [About this ban...](https://ablisscomplete.com/about-this-ban/) - Since seeing President Trump's tweet about no longer allowing transgender persons to serve in the U.S. armed forces, and then seeing the plethora of articles, comments and opinions on it, I can't get it out of my mind. When I first read the tweet, I didn't have an overwhelming sense of acceptance or abhorrence, so - [Why I Call You Princess](https://ablisscomplete.com/why-i-call-you-princess/) - My beloved Eve, you are one year old today. Mommy and Daddy couldn’t love you more. You have brought so much sunshine to our lives. You are our Sweetheart, our Princess. Many parents call their daughters Princess. I actually vowed I would never call you that because it was so cliché and 2-dimensional. But then, - [A Full Plate](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-full-plate/) - I think I am a "too much on my plate" kind of person. Is that crazy to say? I have been thinking about it, and even though people I care about tell me I do too much and need to slow down, I just can't imagine myself ever doing that. I love to be busy, - [When you start to feel too cool for your parents...](https://ablisscomplete.com/when-you-start-to-feel-too-cool-for-your-parents/) - My oldest son, Casey, started high school this year. It hit me not long ago that I only have FOUR MORE YEARS with my first born - with my precious son who made me a mother. I know that time will fly by, and it’s been hurting my heart that my time with him is - [A Simple List](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-simple-list/) - Not long ago, I was starting to feel really bad about not accomplishing enough of the things I know are really important. Now, I do a lot in a given day (I won't bore you with the details), but even so, there had been some things I just couldn't fit in that kept coming up - [Misjudging](https://ablisscomplete.com/misjudging/) - Have you ever misjudged someone? I have. I am thinking about it a lot right now. For much of this school year, I have been so very concerned and upset about one of my kids' teachers. I have contacted the principal more times than I can count, and have felt so helpless thinking my son - [Lessons from Watching Elena of Avalor](https://ablisscomplete.com/lessons-from-watching-elena-of-avalor/) - My daughter's favorite show is currently Elena of Avalor. I don't blame her - it's funny, has some really interesting characters and stories, has catchy songs, and also teaches some really awesome life lessons. All of my boys even like it. I was watching an episode with her today, an episode we have already seen, - [The New Normal (For Now)](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-new-normal-for-now/) - Early this month, from March 5-8, Jad and I went to Asheville, NC to celebrate our 10th anniversary. It was wonderful to go out and do exactly what we wanted and spend lots of time together, mostly stress-free. It was sweet, peaceful, and exciting – just what we needed. But when we got back - [Granddad's Organ Miracle](https://ablisscomplete.com/granddads-organ-miracle/) - I was going through old papers on my desk today, and I was so happy to come across the story my Granddad told about the Washington, DC Temple Dedication in 1974. I read it, and tears came to my eyes. I felt that I needed to share it with each of you to show that - [18 Years Since I Turned 18](https://ablisscomplete.com/18-years-since-i-turned-18/) - I realized today, my 36th birthday, that it has been 18 years since I turned 18! Crazy! And then I thought just how much my life as changed - how much I have changed - as a result of what has happened in my life the last 18 years. I still remember my 18th birthday - [Heavenly Protection for Eve (Times Three)](https://ablisscomplete.com/heavenly-protection-for-eve-times-three/) - Rigel and I drove together, just him and me, to our dentist appointments last Thursday, July 23. We were both quiet, but then I asked him if there was something he wanted to talk about. He thought for a moment, and then asked me to tell him more about my Granddad, a man I so - [A "Kinder"garten Memory](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-kindergarten-memory/) - When I was at church on Sunday, I had to go to the bathroom (I know, TMI, but I have a point, I promise). When I entered, I saw the toilet seat up. I smiled a little, knowing it was freshly cleaned. At that moment, a memory from kindergarten came rushing back to my mind. - [A Mud Run to Remember](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-mud-run-to-remember/) - Sometimes you sign up for something having no idea what you are really in for. That happened to me this past Saturday when I went with several members of my son, Casey’s, wrestling team, the wrestling coach and his wife, and one of their friends. I did look at the website to see what the - [The Most Important New Year's Resolution](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-most-important-new-years-resolution/) - Today I had the very special opportunity to speak in church about how to strengthen our relationship with Jesus Christ in the coming new year. My Bishop gave me two weeks to prepare, and the first week I did spend quite a bit of time researching and pondering. But, the week before speaking, I was - [A 3 A.M. Prompting](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-3-a-m-prompting/) - It took me far too long to fall asleep last night. My heart was heavy with many things, but I finally went to sleep, hoping and praying that Asher, our six-month-old, actually slept well. I found myself being suddenly awakened during the 3:00 hour. I could hear movement in my bathroom. Then a light went - [100 Things the Book of Mormon Has Taught Me](https://ablisscomplete.com/100-things-book-of-mormon-has-taught-me/) - Last week I completed my fourth and final semester studying the Book of Mormon, along with other sisters who I have come to love dearly. The first two semesters, I was blessed to be taught by a wonderful sister. Then the last two semesters, I had the blessed responsibility of teaching the class. In both roles, I grew - [The Enemy](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-enemy/) - But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; (Matthew 5:44). “Lord, this is too hard,” many of you may say when you read those verses. How can we love, bless, do good to and pray for those who take advantage of us, speak badly of us, treat us - [Good Humans](https://ablisscomplete.com/good-humans/) - I have always tried to be a kind, genuine person. I see good in others and love making new friends. Because of that, I have had many friends over the years who are very different from me in their beliefs, lifestyles, values, and goals. Now, I grew up in a very religious culture where we - [Reflecting on 2023](https://ablisscomplete.com/reflecting-on-2023/) - Last night before midnight, our family discussed our year and what events were most meaningful to us. It was no contest: Asher’s birth was the most wonderful and memorable event to happen in our 2023. And our lives have never been the same since he came home to us two weeks later. You can learn - [A Month without My Missionary](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-month-without-my-missionary/) - Today has been exactly one month since my first born, Casey Scott Lewis, left home to serve a service mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I have so many thoughts and feelings to share. Before I do, I want to share Casey’s story leading up to his mission. In the summer - [A Statement of Love? Or Can We Do Better?](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-statement-of-love-or-can-we-do-better/) - "Love the sinner; hate the sin." Have you ever heard that before? Of course, you have. Have you ever used it? If you are a Christian, most likely, and maybe even often. I have heard this statement my whole life. To be honest, it has never sat well with me. I have never really thought - [A Onesie with Meaning](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-onesie-with-meaning/) - This is Asher Jordan Al-Bjaly, our fifth born child, born on February 17, 2023. He is almost 2 and a half months old. Last week, I put him in a onesie that my sister gave me at my baby shower. It says, "I'm proof that God answers prayers." When I opened the gift, she said - [God gives you who you need: part 2](https://ablisscomplete.com/god-gives-you-who-you-need-part-2/) - It's expected that everything about having a baby is exciting and full of blissful joy. I really wanted this post to be all that, but I also believe in keeping it real. Life is not always roses, not even when pregnant with a surprise baby. Allow me to explain. Yesterday was the day of the - [The Fourth Was Not the Last...](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-fourth-was-not-the-last/) - I have never done a blog post like this before, but I have a lot of important life updates that I hope to share, and to do it best, I have recorded videos of myself. The first is in March 2022 and may not seem to connect to the others that start in August, but - [Goodbye for now, Grandpa.](https://ablisscomplete.com/goodbye-for-now-grandpa/) - This morning at 6:12am I got a phone call from my dad. I didn't want to answer it, not just because I didn't want to wake Jad, but mostly because I knew what his call would mean: my grandpa had passed away. I didn't cry then, but I lay in my bed wishing that if - [Losing Your Life to Find It](https://ablisscomplete.com/losing-your-life-to-find-it/) - Wow. Church today was just about as beautiful as it could be. I personally felt the presence of the Holy Ghost during every congregational hymn, musical number, and talk given. That beautiful spirit, often manifested by involuntary tears, continued into Relief Society (a class for our church’s women’s organization). The main theme of the day - [Love for Messiah](https://ablisscomplete.com/love-for-messiah/) - Sometimes I say “yes” to too many things, and regret it later. There was one thing I said “yes” to recently, though, that became a huge blessing in my life. After hearing about it from my Bishop one Sunday, I decided to join the Mebane Community Choir and sing in its 25th annual performance of - [Helping Others Feel Their Savior's Love](https://ablisscomplete.com/helping-others-feel-their-saviors-love/) - Today, I felt a great desire to sing one of my favorite children's hymns: "I Feel My Savior's Love." Today is December 1, and is the first day of my church's, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' annual service program called Light the World. This has been such a hard year for all - [My Thoughts This Election Day](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-thoughts-this-election-day/) - I felt a little spiritual nudge to record my thoughts today. I hope they bring some peace and inspiration. :) - [Thoughts of My Heart](https://ablisscomplete.com/thoughts-of-my-heart/) - This afternoon I felt the Holy Ghost prompting me to record a video and just express what is in my heart. It is almost 10 minutes. I cry and look like a hot mess with my leaky face, but I hope it inspires. - [Compassion Transforms](https://ablisscomplete.com/compassion-transforms/) - I feel like I have written about judging others several times, but maybe that's because I have lots of lessons to learn on it. On August 23, I had a thought, and I feel it will stick with me forever. It was more or less this: When you judge someone negatively, you may not necessarily - [We Didn't Cry](https://ablisscomplete.com/we-didnt-cry/) - Eight days ago we moved from our home of 8.25 years into a rental home in the next town over. That night we ate Cook Out on the floor of our empty dining room and played outside together at our home, probably for the last time. I thought I would cry that night, but I - [One Roadtrip, Four Ways to Use the Potty](https://ablisscomplete.com/one-roadtrip-four-ways-to-use-the-potty/) - Since we have been at home so much due to the restrictions surrounding COVID-19, I thought it would be an awesome idea for us to take the kids on a little road trip to Troutman, NC to visit Zootastic. We know a couple families whose kids recently called it the best place ever, so we - [A New Hat I Feel Called to Wear](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-new-hat-i-feel-called-to-wear/) - In The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, every six months, we have a conference led by the leaders of our church. The messages are meant to inspire us to learn and be better followers of Jesus Christ. All of the messages in this April's conference were meaningful and wonderful. I felt the Spirit - [Try Something New - Stretch Yourself](https://ablisscomplete.com/try-something-new-stretch-yourself/) - I'm turning 36 this year, and I have had some sort of an awakening recently - there are a lot of things I have never done and don't know how to do that would be super cool to learn about and to do. I've always had my core interests, such as singing, acting, reading, writing, - [Goodbye, PB and Apple Jelly!](https://ablisscomplete.com/goodbye-pb-and-apple-jelly/) - You know the end of the story based on the title, but let me start at the beginning: Back in October 2017, Jad and I excitedly and proudly opened our e-commerce store, PB and Apple Jelly. We had spent tons of time and effort on it, and really loved what we came up with. We - [Want to Visit Palmyra? Read This!](https://ablisscomplete.com/want-to-visit-palmyra-read-this/) - My family just did a 1-week trip to Palmyra, NY the second week of July, 2019. We experienced and learned so much, so I wanted to share some tips, suggestions, and experiences to help anyone else who wants to visit this wonderful area! For those of you who have no idea where Palmyra, NY is, - [Challenges That Have Changed My Life, That Can Change Yours Too!](https://ablisscomplete.com/challenges-that-have-changed-my-life-that-can-change-yours-too/) - I adore our dear prophet, President Russell M. Nelson. Since he has become president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he has brought so much inspired counsel to the members of the church and the world. This past October, in the Women's session of General Conference, President Nelson gave a very poignant - [This Is The Desire Of My Heart](https://ablisscomplete.com/desireofmyheart/) - This is the desire of our hearts. (Mosiah 18:11) This little line has brought an abundance of the Spirit and tears to my eyes this afternoon. I was reading about the Prophet Abinadi and the beautiful truths he taught about Jesus Christ to wicked King Noah and his priests. Alma, one of the priests, believed - [A Teaching Moment with a Slash](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-teaching-moment-with-a-slash-2/) - Sunday afternoon was pretty quiet. The boys had just finished watching some gospel-oriented shows while Jad and I took a little nap on the couch. Then, Casey and Rigel went upstairs. Casey came downstairs not long after, and told me that Rigel was making a card for his friend (we'll call him Bob) that had - [Must They Grow Up?](https://ablisscomplete.com/must-they-grow-up/) - As the thunder roared and shook our house Sunday night, my husband went to check on our little Eve, who is two months shy of turning two years old. She was, as he suspected, frightened by the storm. He lovingly brought her to our bed, snuggled with her for a bit, and then left her - [Savior, May I Love My Brother (And Sister)](https://ablisscomplete.com/savior-may-i-love-my-brother-and-sister/) - Sometimes we hurt. We have feelings of loneliness, frustration, confusion, embarrassment, defeat, or ostracism, all wrapped up in a bow of harsh judgments. It is heart-wrenching, and it leads to headaches, depression, and lots of crying. Sometimes the tears are from those who have been wronged, and sometimes the tears are from those who were - [A Trip Just for Me](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-trip-just-for-me/) - My husband and I started an ecommerce business called PB and Apple Jelly a little over four months ago. It has been a ton of hard work with successes here and failures there, with a lot of learning and frustration in between. A little over a month ago, Fred Lam, the 29-year-old multi-millionaire entrepreneur who - [A Man I Want to Be Like](https://ablisscomplete.com/4550-2/) - Tears are streaming down my face. I haven't blogged in quite some time due to having no time, but I have felt that I needed to write a little about President Thomas S. Monson. He was the beloved President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for nearly 10 years, until his spirit - [Christmas is all about a Gift](https://ablisscomplete.com/christmas-is-all-about-gif/) - I have been pondering a lot about gifts this Christmas season. That is the first thing many of us do once Thanksgiving comes to a close - we frantically start looking for gifts to buy our loved ones. We spend the month of December shopping, buying, wrapping, and often stressing. I personally have been spoiled - [PB and Apple Jelly](https://ablisscomplete.com/pb-and-apple-jelly/) - About a month ago, Jad approached me with an idea. He was really excited about this idea, and had spent a lot of time thinking about it, researching it, and watching sales pitches on it. After all this, and praying about it, he felt he should involve me in the idea. I admit that at - [I may not be your friend right now, but I still love you](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-may-not-be-your-friend-right-now-but-i-still-love-you/) - Those of you who know me well know that I love people. I want to be friends with everyone I meet, and I do care what people think of me. I try to be honest, kind and service-oriented. If you need anything, I will do my very best to help, and if I can’t, I - [A joyful but difficult year](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-joyful-but-difficult-year/) - I remember the day I turned 22. It was only a couple months after my divorce was finalized, and a month after I had moved to North Carolina to live with my parents (along with my nearly 1-year-old son, Casey). At that point, I had been attending the LDS Singles Ward (congregation) in Chapel Hill, - [Tender Mercies on a Trip](https://ablisscomplete.com/tender-mercies-on-a-trip/) - A little over a month ago, we went on a little family vacation to Williamsburg, VA. We had a lot of fun, as we always do, but what will be most memorable to me this time, are the tender mercies of the Lord that we saw all throughout our trip. In case you don’t know - [Are you done??](https://ablisscomplete.com/are-you-done/) - So, most of you know I have four kids now: Casey (almost 12), Rigel (6), Kamren (almost 4), and Eve (nearly 5 months). When people see me with all of my kids, or when people talk to Jad and find out he has four kids, the question inevitably arises, "Are you done having kids?" Sometimes - [I almost yelled at my husband yesterday](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-almost-yelled-at-my-husband-yesterday/) - I seem to always be in a hurry. Yesterday, I had my husband's car, so it wasn't nearly as easy to get the baby and my three-year-old into the car. I finally got them, and myself, strapped in exactly ten minutes before we had to be at Kamren's speech class. That's okay - that's perfect, - [I'm talkin' in my sleep about YOU](https://ablisscomplete.com/im-talkin-in-my-sleep-about-you/) - There are some very special people in my life who I love with my whole soul. One such person is my beloved Nana, Lois Jordan. Today, she turns 77 years young, and I want to express my appreciation and love for her today. When I was growing up, one of my very favorite places to - [Brother's Gonna Take Care of You](https://ablisscomplete.com/brothers-gonna-take-care-of-you/) - My boys are crazy - they run, scream, and fight, and their energy never seems to end. They play bad guys and good guys, and are rough to say the least. Now that they have their baby sister, they are still all those things, but around her they are gentle, sweet, and affectionate. They want - [All About Baby Eve](https://ablisscomplete.com/all-about-baby-eve/) - For about 11 years I have wanted to name my first baby girl Raina after a beautiful 3-year-old girl I watched at my daycare job. Well, once I found out I was having a girl this pregnancy, I wasn't so sure anymore. I wanted to make sure that Raina was the right name, so I went - [When you don't feel beautiful](https://ablisscomplete.com/when-you-dont-feel-beautiful/) - I have spent a lot of time crying this pregnancy. Some of it has been tears of joy as I finally got pregnant after nearly a year of trying, or finding out that I was finally having a little girl after preparing myself to have a fourth boy. I wish I could say my tears - [I Love Primary Children](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-love-primary-children/) - There are a lot of things that set my church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, apart from other churches. One big one is that our church congregations are run by its members. We do not hire our spiritual leaders, teachers, choristers, custodians, pianists, etc. The members are asked to, or called, to do - [The Recipe for Eternity](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-recipe-for-eternity/) - I taught a class on building an eternal marriage to the women in my congregation, as well as in a larger event for women in my church. I wanted to make the class interesting, easy to remember, and fun. I would like to share my lesson with you so you can have this discussion and - [I Love to See the Temple](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-love-to-see-the-temple/) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaRPcN83zXw This is one of my favorite children's hymns, and has been since I was a child in Primary at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I can barely sing it without becoming emotional, and I certainly can't hear a choir of children sing it without tears falling like a waterfall down my cheeks. - [Wonderful](https://ablisscomplete.com/wonderful/) - Today is my husband’s, Jad Al-Bjaly’s, 34th birthday. He will probably tell you he is only 33 or 32. That is a joke that never gets old in our house, at least to him, haha. Since it is his birthday, and since I have never done so before, I want to write a post that - [God gives you who you need](https://ablisscomplete.com/god-gives-you-who-you-need/) - As many of you know, I have three sons, ages 11, 5 and 3. Ever since getting pregnant with my fourth child, my friends and family have cheerily and optimistically expressed that they hope I have a girl this time. Usually in conversations like this, I admit that I would love to have a daughter, - [Why Everyone should be in a Musical](https://ablisscomplete.com/why-everyone-should-be-in-a-musical/) - This past Saturday, ended a time of my life that was most precious – my time rehearsing for and performing in Chitty Chitty Bang Bang with the Durham Stake of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I wouldn’t trade that time for the world. There is something incredibly unique about participating in a - [A Tribute to My First Born](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-tribute-to-my-first-born/) - Casey, you are 11 years old now, and as I have observed your actions lately with admiration, I wish to honor you with a tribute. Are you always the perfect son? No, but I am not always the perfect mother, and nobody's perfect. You and I both know where we need to improve, but that - [Are they RIGHT about me?](https://ablisscomplete.com/are-they-right-about-me/) - Compliments are meant to lift us up and make us feel good inside. But does criticism also have a place in our lives? Whether we realize it or not, people are constantly saying negative things about us, either to us or behind our backs. My son had a bad experience last week at recess when - [1, 2, 3, 4!!!](https://ablisscomplete.com/1-2-3-4/) - Last June, I started to have this great desire to do something. I told my husband, but he wasn't quite on board with it. I was a bit surprised, but patiently waited. Two months later, he decided that my idea was a worthy one. So, we set to work to accomplish this desire. Except, it - [I learned, not failed](https://ablisscomplete.com/i-learned-not-failed/) - Have you ever prayed out loud pleading, sobbing, hoping, asking? I did that recently. I had to. I was so confused, emotionally and physically exhausted, and feeling that I wasn’t doing my part well enough. March 18-19 2016, my mom and I attended an event in Raleigh put on by Deseret Book called Time Out - [When I am an adult I can...](https://ablisscomplete.com/when-i-am-an-adult/) - You know the phrase "From the mouths of babes?" Most of the time, people use that phrase when children say something profoundly true or spiritual. Well, I think it can also apply when they say something that shouldn't be true, but it is too often - when they say something that causes reflection, and possibly - [Surprise!](https://ablisscomplete.com/surprise/) - We never win anything - well, we never did, until January 27, 2016. See, last November, Jad's school, MyComputerCareer, sent an email out about a video contest. In three minutes or less, Jad was asked to describe or illustrate his experience with MyComputerCareer - what he loved about the school, how the school has helped him change his life, and how it - [More than just Terms of Endearment](https://ablisscomplete.com/more-than-just-terms-of-endearment/) - Casey, Rigel, and Kamren, you mean more to me than I could ever express to you. You are the boys that Heavenly Father saw fit to send to me. You made me a mother, and I want you to know that I am your biggest fan, and that I see the divine worth and potential - [2015 with the Al-Bjalys](https://ablisscomplete.com/2015-with-the-al-bjalys/) - I am 100% sure I am missing things, but I did my best! Here is how 2015 went for the Al-Bjaly family! School: On April 17, Casey got to go on a big field trip to the beach. His favorite part was being at the beach. ;) Casey graduated from fourth grade June 12 and - [Gratitude can change your life for the best](https://ablisscomplete.com/gratitude-can-change-your-life-for-bes/) - I shared this talk in my church congregation on December 17, 2006, not long after the hardest experiences I have ever had in my life up until that point, and probably ever in my life, until now. The talk's topic was gratitude. I always thought that it was an inspired topic, for through studying it - [By Small and Simple Things](https://ablisscomplete.com/by-small-and-simple-things/) - But in the right hands…in God’s hands…everything small becomes magnified. – JadaKaye My friend’s words make me tear up every time I read them. Her words are true. In her statement, Jada was specifically talking about the content of an inspirational documentary on BYUTV called “Turning Point.” She said that the show mesmerized her: “The thing - [Matching My Inside](https://ablisscomplete.com/matching-my-inside/) - I must be crazy. I am a super busy mother of three, with a husband, a house to keep in order, a church I worship in and provide service to, a blog I love, books to read and book reviews to write, an aspiration to write my own book, and more. Phew. That is a lot of - [The Boy Who Played the Piano](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-boy-who-played-the-piano/) - There once was a teenage boy who was kind, friendly, funny, and very musically talented. He spent most of his social time with girls because they were nice to him. When around boys his age, though, he smiled less, and wished to be alone. So, he often took refuge at the piano. Most who saw - [Because I know what's best for you](https://ablisscomplete.com/because-i-know-whats-best-for-you/) - Follow my blog with Bloglovin I was home with my two little ones by myself one night, and my 4-year-old was winning a debate at the dinner table. He was refusing to eat his dinner, no matter what bribes – or threats – I threw out. In desperation, I finally screamed out: “I’m in charge - [This is how we do it.](https://ablisscomplete.com/this-is-how-we-do-i/) - I took the boys to the library last Monday night. I don’t usually look forward to it because Kamren always opens the elevator, he and Rigel try to run upstairs, and one or both run in the aisles. When in line to check out, Rigel was trying to touch the big screen. I asked him to stop, and - [Cheer for the Home Team](https://ablisscomplete.com/cheer-for-the-home-team/) - I recently mused: A house is a roof over your head, but a home is so much more. To me, home is a very special word. It indicates a place of belonging, a place of love, a place of safety, a place of sacrifice, and a place of peace. A house is something you build - [If she is the worst mother in America, so am I.](https://ablisscomplete.com/if-she-is-the-worst-mother-in-america-so-am-i/) - A few days ago, I heard about a movement called #iStandWithCherish. I didn't really know what it was, and wasn't super interested in finding out. Then, I kept seeing it everywhere, and read my friends' passionate posts about it. I then decided to find out what this was all about. I read a quick news - [Four Miracles Behind the Wheel](https://ablisscomplete.com/four-miracles-behind-the-wheel/) - After I told you the story of the first time God saved my life, I started to ponder the other times He has come to my rescue. There have been four times in my life that I could have - should have - gotten into a car accident, being either horribly hurt, or maybe even killed. - [You Aren't Weird, but Your Beliefs Are Part 4 - What Mormons Believe](https://ablisscomplete.com/you-arent-weird-but-your-beliefs-are_30/) - In the last post I confirmed to you how I know that Joseph Smith was a prophet. In part, it was because he translated and brought forth The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ. As a prophet, Joseph did so much more. He also received numerous revelations from Jesus himself. Christ gave him - [If couples cleave, they won't want to leave](https://ablisscomplete.com/to-cleave-or-not-to-cleave-there-is-no/) - An abridged version of this post can be found on familyshare.com. Cleave: To adhere firmly and closely or loyally and unwaveringly But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so - [The Monster and the Miracle](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-monster-and-miracle/) - August 28, 2011 was just like any normal Sunday. We went to church as usual, and had dinner at my parents' house. Everything seemed fine. Then, that night, after we put the kids to bed, Jad started to get stomach pain. He said he felt like knives were stabbing him. He started to throw up, - [You are Replaceable](https://ablisscomplete.com/you-are-replaceable/) - On January 25, 2011, I had my sweet baby boy, Rigel. Up until that day, I had been working full time at the AICPA, and had been, ironically, since January 25, 2007. When Jad and I knew we were going to have a baby, we started discussing what should be done. Very pregnant me - [You Aren't Weird, but Your Beliefs Are Part 3: How I Know Joseph Smith was a Prophet](https://ablisscomplete.com/you-arent-weird-but-your-beliefs-are_21/) - In my last post I left you with an image of a 14-year-old farm boy who prayed and saw a vision of Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ Himself told Joseph that His church did not exist on the earth and not to join any of the existing churches. This boy would be prepared to - [You Aren't Weird, but Your Beliefs Are Part 2: Why Are There So Many Churches?](https://ablisscomplete.com/you-arent-weird-but-your-beliefs-are_11/) - Have you ever wondered why there are so many Christian churches? Has that ever bothered you? Why would that be anyway? All Christians have access to the Bible. All (well, most) Christians believe in the divinity of Jesus Christ and accept Him as their Savior; yet, there are countless denominations, and even non-denominations. Some of - [Live in the Light](https://ablisscomplete.com/live-in-the-light/) - Say the word house to yourself. Now say the word home. The words feel different, don’t they? A house is a roof over your head, but a home is so much more. To me, home is a very special word. It indicates a place of belonging, a place of love, a place of safety, a - [You Aren't Weird, but Your Beliefs Are Part 1: My Life as a Mormon](https://ablisscomplete.com/you-arent-weird-but-your-beliefs-are/) - Many of my friends are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS church) just like me. However, I also have many treasured relationships with people not of my faith. For those of you who aren't a part of my faith, but who know me well, you may have asked yourself at one time - [Parenthood: Change for the harder, but truly for the better](https://ablisscomplete.com/parenthood-change-for-harder-but-truly/) - My name is Mandy. I am 29 years old and I am the mother of three boys ranging from almost 1 to almost 9. I am not going to lie to you – there are days when I just want to fold into myself and cry. Life as a parent is really hard. Despite this, - [Mommies, what matters?](https://ablisscomplete.com/mommies-what-matters/) - A friend of mine asked on Facebook yesterday, "Mommies, what matters?" She said that one of her friends was told she was a bad mother because her kids wear hand-me-down clothes. Everyone who responded to this post completely disagreed with the thought. I am not surprised we all disagreed, but then I thought about it - [A Dream with a Message](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-dream-with-a-message/) - Most of the dreams I have, I forget, or if I do remember them, they make no sense. Well, the night of July 21, 2015, I had a dream I will never forget. The power of the Holy Ghost was so overwhelming, that it consumed my thoughts and heart during the dream, and after I - [10 things I thought I would never do as a parent until I became one](https://ablisscomplete.com/10-things-i-thought-i-would-never-do-as-a-parent-until-i-became-one/) - This was published today on familyshare.com. When I was a young adult, moving into the marriage and family mindset, I had some ideas of what I would and wouldn’t do or allow as a parent. I always figured my kids would stay up late sometimes, and eat junk food on a regular basis. But, I - [Who will live within your walls?](https://ablisscomplete.com/who-will-live-within-your-walls/) - To all the women out there who have chosen not to have children, I am writing to you as a wife and a mother. You may expect me to judge you, and to tell you what you have probably heard many times - that you are selfish or must not value family. It may be - [All is well](https://ablisscomplete.com/all-is-well/) - In church this past Sunday, we sang a hymn entitled "Come, Come Ye Saints," by William Clayton. It is a beautiful song of hope that the Mormon pioneers sang as they made the long, treacherous journey across the plains to the Salt Lake Valley: 1. Come, come, ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear; But - [Pioneer: One that goes before, showing others the way to follow.](https://ablisscomplete.com/pioneer-one-that-goes-before-showing/) - Every year on July 24, members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons) celebrate Pioneer Day, the anniversary of the day that the first Mormon pioneers arrived in the Salt Lake Valley in 1847. It is a day to honor and remember the faith, courage, sacrifice, and perseverance of the early members of the church. The early Saints - [The first time God saved my life, He saved my mother's too.](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-first-time-god-saved-my-life-he-saved-my-mothers-too/) - I was not my mom’s first pregnancy. She had lost a baby before me. That tragedy would make it even harder to handle the trauma of her second pregnancy: me. I was due around August 17, 1984, but I was born June 21, 1984. I was eight weeks early. On June 16, 1984, my mother was working - [The Biggest lessons we learn come from the Smallest people we love](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-biggest-lessons-we-learn-come-fro/) - “Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3–4). Jesus loves and cherishes little children. God has commanded us to bear children when we are able. The greatest joys we - [We know better, so let's do better](https://ablisscomplete.com/we-know-better-so-lets-do-better/) - Also read this post on www.familyshare.com. I would be making an unrighteous judgment if I said that all Christians are habitually judgmental. However, based on hundreds of social media comments I have read lately, there are way too many hateful things being said by Christians without any thought for how they will hurt others’ self-esteem, - [Faith is the key](https://ablisscomplete.com/help-i-have-lost-my-faith-what-do-i-do/) - *An abridged version can be found on familyshare.com. As someone who has many friends and family members who have questioned their faith, whether it be in their specific religion, or God Himself, this subject of losing faith has been consistently in my mind.I am someone who loves to help. Anyone who knows me knows that - [7 clues that your terrible relationship could be your fault](https://ablisscomplete.com/7-clues-that-your-terrible-relationship-could-be-your-fault/) - This is the version I submitted to Family Share before it was re-edited and published on their site. See which one you like better: Sometimes in a dating or marriage relationship, the commitment and happiness decline, and the relationship goes terribly south. When this happens to you, you wonder where the problems lie, and who - [How long should I wait to date after my divorce?](https://ablisscomplete.com/how-long-should-i-wait-to-date-after-my-divorce/) - I wrote this article for Family Share. It feels good to know I can help others through sharing my experiences and lessons learned during difficult times of my life: It is hard to know when you should date after a divorce. I was 21 years old and a recent college graduate, trying to raise my - [Are Mormons Christians: A question that can only be answered by a Mormon](https://ablisscomplete.com/are-mormons-christians-question-tha/) - I remember like it was yesterday sitting in my 9th grade history class. We were studying different Christian religions and my teacher brought up Mormons. A boy in class, one I happened to have a crush on at the time, shook his head and said, “Mormons aren’t Christians. They wrote their own book.” I, a 14-year-old Mormon girl, was too - [It isn't easy being green...with envy](https://ablisscomplete.com/it-isnt-easy-being-green/) - Nobody wants to be accused of being envious, especially when it is true. I have often battled with this monster, and often I have given in. I have submerged my mind in bitterness, inadequacy, and irrationality. It is next to impossible to be true friends with someone whose skills, talents, looks, and achievements you envy. - [Sabbath Day Light: Forgiveness](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-forgiveness/) - I love going to church each Sunday. LDS people attend church for three hours, and in those three hours, go to three different meetings. In each, we are spiritually nourished. Yesterday, I left church with an abundance of the Spirit in my heart. In our first meeting of the day, Sacrament Meeting, a brother in - [Sabbath Day Light: A promise to receive answers](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-promise-to-receive/) - My family is currently on vacation in Williamsburg, VA, so this Sunday morning we worshiped with fellow Latter-day Saints from the Jamestown area. At the beginning of our first meeting, a visiting local church leader gave us a promise. He promised that if this coming weekend, we watch all four sessions of General Conference, we will receive - [Sabbath Day Light: In this there is safety. In this there is peace.](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-in-this-there-is/) - The past two days I was truly spiritually fed. My family and I watched four 2-hour sessions of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints’ General Conference. It was wonderful. The spirit was strong, and from the experience I have grown and have specific, loving instruction on how to better myself and help those - [Sabbath Day Light: Peace through Keeping God's Commandments](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-peace-through-keeping/) - In church this past Sunday, we had our monthly Testimony Meeting. In these meetings, members of the congregation, who feel the Spirit prompt them, will come up to the pulpit and share their testimony of different aspects of the gospel of Jesus Christ. I always look forward to these meetings, and often share my testimony. In - [Sabbath Day Light: Every Day like Easter Sunday](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-every-day-like-easter/) - This past Sunday was so wonderful. It was Easter Sunday, so my husband and I made a special effort with our kids to focus on the Savior. We also got to hear beautiful music and messages in church about Christ's atonement and resurrection. Then, we were able to spend time that evening with the people we love most - our family. - [Sabbath Day Light: I am related to Gladys Knight](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-i-am-related-to/) - Last night, as well as tonight, I have had the wonderful privilege to attend "One Voice," a presentation of music and testimony, sung by Saints Unified Voices gospel choir, directed by Gladys Knight. (To learn more about the choir, click here.) The music was absolutely amazing. Every member of the choir, every member of the live - [Sabbath Day Light: Women of faith united](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-women-of-faith-united/) - This Sunday, as everyone knows, was Mother's Day. The whole day was wonderful, and during every minute of church, the Spirit was there so strongly. In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we believe in the divine nature of men and women. During church, it really hit me that women really do have special characteristics and - [Sabbath Day Light: A talking donkey spoke to me](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-talking-donkey-spoke/) - This week in Sunday School, we discussed the story of Balaam, a prophet whom King Balak enticed many times to curse the Israelites. You can read a full description of the story here. I found it very interesting and enlightening. There are so many lessons to be learned from it, such as the need to - [Sabbath Day Light: There is music in me](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-there-is-music-in-me/) - I am a person who loves music. As I think about it, it has always been such a huge part of my life, and the memories I have make me smile. My love of music came from my Nana and Granddad. My Granddad was an amazingly talented pianist and organist. He had a gift not many people - [Sabbath Day Light: I love God and His children. That includes you.](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-i-love-god-and-his/) - There are so many things I could write about today. The Spirit at church was so strong and thick, you could swim in it. From thinking about my purpose to fasting today, to the beautiful testimonies borne by other faithful Saints, to discussing moral courage in Sunday School, to talking about the importance of education, - [Sabbath Day Light: I know that God is real. I will never deny it.](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-i-know-that-god-is/) - Church this Sunday was once again amazing. I was so happy to have a couple of my friends attend with us to support me as I sang, and to share in our love of our new building. I was also able to hear a friend, who recently began coming back to church, sing in church, which I - [Sabbath Day Light: A perfectly imperfect Father's Day](https://ablisscomplete.com/sabbath-day-light-perfectly-imperfec/) - This Father's Day was very different than all the others. That's because instead of being home, we were in Charlotte. At first, I was really kind of disappointed that we missed being at our church, where Casey, along with his peers, would have sung a beautiful song to the fathers. I was sad that I wasn't able - [Washington, D.C., I love you.](https://ablisscomplete.com/washington-dc-i-love-you/) - Jad, Kamren and I went to Washington, D.C. this past Friday through Sunday. It was such a wonderful vacation for us. It was Jad's first time ever being in D.C. and I hadn't been there for many years. Throughout our time there, my mind flooded with memories of my childhood. When I looked at the - [I never stand alone.](https://ablisscomplete.com/alone-i-stand-while-all-world-around-me/) - Alone I stand,While all the world around meSurrounds meAnd takes me for a fool.But I am notThe first to be regardedAs weak and simple-heartedFor choosing to believeThat He keeps watch over His own.CHORUSI never stand aloneWhen I stand with GodAnd I stand with His prophets.Wherever I may go,When I stand with GodI never stand alone.And - [Meet Charlotte](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-story-of-charlotte/) - Jad and I had been content for four years not having a pet. We never discussed even wanting a pet any time soon, and definitely not a dog. A hamster might have been okay when Casey got older. So, how did we end up with a dog, you ask? Well, in the beginning of March, - [Pornography: I say it. I talk about it. You should too.](https://ablisscomplete.com/lets-start-talking-about-pornography/) - Once upon a time, there was a young woman who went out to college. She met a young man. Though she for a long time only saw him as a friend, her feelings finally turned into something more and they fell in love. They had many conversations about their pasts. He told her that he - [What I told my son when he asked me about bullying](https://ablisscomplete.com/what-i-told-my-son-when-he-asked-me/) - Bully: a blustering, quarrelsome, overbearing person who habitually badgers and intimidates smaller or weaker people. Last week my 9-year-old approached me and asked me if a certain word was a bad word. He was asking because a kid on the bus last year used to call him that over and over. He hadn't really known - [Don't try to be hot. Try to be you.](https://ablisscomplete.com/dont-try-to-be-hot-try-to-be-you/) - My mind has been going to modesty lately, and I realize I have a lot of experiences and thoughts I would like to share with you to help you see just how crucial it is. Members of my church think about modesty on a daily basis. You usually won't see active Mormons wearing short skirts, - [The Holy Ghost led me home](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-holy-ghost-led-me-home/) - Exactly one year ago I had a spiritual experience behind the wheel. This is how I told it on Facebook that night: I have to share a spiritual experience I had last night while driving home from babysitting my good friend's kids. I got in my van and tried using my trusty phone GPS to - [One Step Enough for Me](https://ablisscomplete.com/one-step-enough-for-me/) - Last Saturday I went to Women's Day, an annual event put on by my church, for women living in this area. Each sister that was there was able to sign up for three different classes of her choosing. I thoroughly enjoyed all of my classes, and am anxiously awaiting next year's Women's Day.In one of - [Hate won't make us Great](https://ablisscomplete.com/hate-wont-make-us-grea/) - Civility: polite, reasonable, and respectful behavior Most people see the value in civility. They try to be that way; they hope others do the same; they teach their children to be civil so they will be more successful in life. Yesterday was election day in the United States. I am sure many of you have read - [Let the Memory Live Again](https://ablisscomplete.com/let-memory-live-again/) - As I have been writing this blog, I have felt this bold, and dutiful desire - even obligation - to share my past experiences, mistakes, trials and heartaches with anyone in the world who would read my words. If you asked me last year if I would ever make a lot of these things public - [Let's do what we can](https://ablisscomplete.com/lets-do-what-we-can/) - I wish we could travel more. Why don't we ever go out to eat? My shoes are starting to look old. My coat is a little snug around the middle. My clothes don't all fit quite right. Our van is disgusting; it has crumbs and dog hair all in it. The baby's socks are stained - [My Favorite Piece of Jewelry](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-favorite-piece-of-jewelry/) - For Christmas this year, I asked my husband to get me something I already have. It's a type of ring that has very special meaning to me. Recently I have felt a very strong desire to wear this ring, or one like it, every day of my life. No longer do I want to have - [From Weak to Strong](https://ablisscomplete.com/from-weak-to-strong/) - My husband, Jad, has been going through an IT certification program since September. He has taken four certification exams so far. In preparation for each, he has attended all of his classes, done all the labs and pretests, and spent hours and hours studying. He has also refrained from ever studying on the Sabbath Day - [All my love always, Betsy](https://ablisscomplete.com/all-my-love-always-betsy/) - I see at my dad a lot, so he doesn't call me very often. He did today, though, at 11:08 AM. He proceeded to tell me something I never expected to hear: that my Aunt Betsy, his youngest sister, had passed away. When he told me, I was really surprised. I knew that she had - [Childhood in a Church](https://ablisscomplete.com/childhood-in-churc/) - The weekend after Christmas, we went to visit family in Virginia, where I grew up. On that Sunday morning, Jad, the kids and I attended The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on Bailey Bridge Road, the church building I attended for most of my childhood up until I went to college. I hadn't - [The only way to have a friend is to be one](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-only-way-to-have-friend-is-to-be-one/) - I have been thinking about the idea of friendship the past few days. I went through a time not so long ago where I felt really down. I felt like I didn't have a really close friend- best friend - who I could talk to or hang out with any time. I felt sorry for - [The Pathway to Perfection](https://ablisscomplete.com/how-to-be-perfec/) - President Harold B. Lee taught that: "Christ came not only into the world to make an atonement for the sins of mankind but to set an example before the world of the standard of perfection of God’s law and of obedience to the Father. In his Sermon on the Mount the Master has given us - [My Day without Little Ones](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-day-without-little-ones/) - Last night, before bed, I felt a little broken inside, like a piece of my heart would soon be missing. I was already regretting the day to come's arrangement where Jad would take Rigel and Kamren to Kinston with him early in the morning, and not bring them home until very late. They would play - [A Blissful Anniversary!](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-blissful-anniversary/) - Today is a very special day. It is the one year anniversary of my first blog post. As I looked over my 47 posts from this past year, some were short, some were long, some were very long, and some were even longer than that. Some tell many personal stories from my life. Some contain - [My Greatest Fear](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-greatest-fear/) - How to Kill a Bug in Only 30 Steps: 1. See it on the ledge of your stairwell, jump backwards, and scream! 2. Run as far away from it as you can. 3. Ask your four-year-old if he will kill it. 4. When he looks at you in horror and says no, you realize you - [A tribute to my siblings](https://ablisscomplete.com/a-tribute-to-my-siblings/) - I am the oldest of four. My brother, Aaron, is two years and two months younger than me, and my other brother, Mark, is five years and two months younger. My only sister, Mariah, is eight years and 10 months younger than me. My relationships with each of them have ebbed and flowed over time. ## Pages - [Teaching Gospel Lessons](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/) - I love to teach. It is one of my greatest loves. Below are lessons I have taught: LDS Institute - The Book of Mormon *You may also find these blog posts helpful as you study the Book of Mormon: 100 things the Book of Mormon has taught me and You Aren't Weird, but Your Beliefs Are - [Patriarchal Blessings Talk](https://ablisscomplete.com/patriarchal-blessings-talk/) - I gave this talk 4/19/2026. Good morning, brothers, sisters, and friends. I want to begin my talk with an admonition from President Russell M. Nelson, who said, “Allow the Lord to lead you on your journey of spiritual discovery.” One very beautiful way we can do that is by receiving our patriarchal blessing. The church - ["Hope of the Nations" Christmas Concert Program](https://ablisscomplete.com/hope-of-the-nations-christmas-concert-program/) - Hope of the Nations Electronic ProgramDownload - [About Me](https://ablisscomplete.com/about-me/) - Personal Growth Memories/Stories Amazon Author Link - [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Mandy-Al-Bjaly/author/B0D5TJS84T?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1762446831&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=ae518ce8-ba46-477b-a474-d45e5c096259](https://ablisscomplete.com/https-www-amazon-com-stores-mandy-al-bjaly-author-b0d5tjs84trefsr_ntt_srch_lnk_1qid1762446831sr8-1isdramintegratedtrueshoppingportalenabledtrueccs_idae518ce8-ba46-477b-a474-d45e5c096259/) - [Enjoying Uplifting Entertainment](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/) - Most of these posts are reviews of books I have read that are uplifting and clean reads. Posts: Always Ella: The Stepmother's Story Women in Science Who Changed the World Traveler (The Traveler Trilogy Book 1) Of Cloudless Climes and Starry Skies (Kinsley Sisters Book 2) Of Twisted Fates (Kinsley Sisters Book 1) Awake at - [Always Ella: The Stepmother's Story](https://ablisscomplete.com/always-ella-the-stepmothers-story/) - In 2015, I had the honor of doing a blog tour for a new author named Jessilyn Stewart Peaslee who had written a Cinderella retelling called Ella. I absolutely fell in love with her novel, and from my review of it, started a friendship with this brilliant and amazing person, as well as many more - [Women in Science Who Changed the World](https://ablisscomplete.com/women-in-science-who-changed-the-world/) - I have read and enjoyed two other of Heidi Poelman's children's books, Little Heroes: Courageous People Who Changed the World and Little Heroes: Inventors Who Changed the World. I was excited to have the chance to read and review her newest children's book, Women in Science Who Changed the World. I have to express my - [The Prophet Mormon, Commander of the Nephite Army](https://ablisscomplete.com/the-prophet-mormon-commander-of-the-nephite-army/) - The Prophet Joseph Smith once said that the word Mormon means “more good.” Today I will be speaking about the prophet Mormon and the good he did for the Nephite People. Elder Holland quoted Joseph Smith, who said that “every man who has a calling to minister to the inhabitants of the world was ordained - [Traveler (The Traveler Trilogy Book 1)](https://ablisscomplete.com/traveler-the-traveler-trilogy-book-1/) - Years ago, I had the privilege of reading and reviewing Melanie Bateman's first book: The Time Key. I absolutely loved it. I was really excited when Melanie asked me to read and review her newest book, Traveler (Book 1). This new book does not have the same protagonist, but he is mentioned more than once - [Virtue](https://ablisscomplete.com/virtue/) - I gave a talk on virtue on 12/11/22 in my church Sacrament Meeting. It was wonderful to learn more about this topic. I knew as I was preparing that I wanted to add personal experiences to my talk. I prayed about which to share, and it was interesting to me which ones came to my - [The Best Pancakes I've Ever Had](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-best-pancakes-ive-ever-had/) - We got snow last Saturday, so of course Jad had to make pancakes. ;) Instead of making the usual pancakes filled with chocolate chips, he went to his Arabic roots and tried something different. Imagine an on-the-crispy-side cinnamon/sugar pancake. That's basically what they tasted like. They were addicting for sure. Here is the recipe - [Cooking with Mr. and Mrs. Apple-Jelly](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/) - My husband and I both love to be in the kitchen. People are always asking for recipes of his creations. It is time to capture some of those. I get very excited when I try a recipe that I can't live without. I will share those here too. I am also going to attempt to - [My talk from the year 2000 on "Thou Shalt Give Heed Unto All His Words"](https://ablisscomplete.com/my-talk-from-the-year-2000-on-thou-shalt-give-heed-unto-all-his-words/) - I was recently going through a box of memories. Some papers fell out, and I realized they were pages of a talk I gave in church many years ago, most likely when I was a teenager. When I looked up the talk that my comments were based around, I realized that I must have spoken - [Ancient Types and Prophecies of Christ, the Jehovah of the Old Testament](https://ablisscomplete.com/ancient-types-and-prophecies-of-christ-the-jehovah-of-the-old-testament/) - I gave a talk in church yesterday. I don't think I have ever spent so much time on a talk in my life (several hours a day for a week), and I know that I have never been so spiritually affected by a talk I have prepared either. I am so grateful that I got - [Helaman 5-8](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/helaman-5-8/) - Helaman 5 - The Nephites continued in wickedness until the majority of them chose wickedness over righteousness. Nephi and Lehi devoted themselves to preaching the word of God. Their father, Helaman, had taught them to remember their Redeemer and to make Him the foundation of their lives. After teaching the Nephites, Nephi and Lehi preached - [Of Cloudless Climes and Starry Skies (Kinsley Sisters Book 2)](https://ablisscomplete.com/of-cloudless-climes-and-starry-skies-kinsley-sisters-book-2/) - I absolutely loved the first Kinsley Sisters Book, Of Twisted Fates, so I was very excited to read the second book, all about Juliet and her love story. It was incredibly different from the first novel, which was totally fine! I am so glad that Simon and Isabelle made several appearances in this novel, though, - [Of Twisted Fates (Kinsley Sisters Book 1)](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/of-twisted-fates-kinsley-sisters-book-1/) - I have been very busy lately as three of my kids have just started virtual school, and the other is young and very much needs my attention. Thus, I haven't read very much lately. It hasn't been at the forefront of my mind at all since I rarely have enough time to just sit down - [Awake at Widmore Manor](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/awake-at-widmore-manor/) - Jessilyn Stewart Peaslee has proven to me three times before this new novella that she can do a perfect fairytale retelling with new depth, staying true to the messages, but making them new and fresh, with each story being superior to the original (in my opinion). I adored her Cinderella retellings called Ella and Ella’s - [Home is a Sacred Place](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/home-is-a-sacred-place/) - I gave a talk in church 10/13/2019 about making our homes a sacred place. Here it is: We have just heard lovely words about the sacredness of the temple. And the Bible dictionary makes a profound statement by saying that "Only the home can compare with the temple in sacredness." Why is that? Well, Sister - [Personal Revelation](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/personal-revelation/) - Talk given January 2019 “Personal Revelation” I wish to speak today about revelation. Our beloved Prophet, Russell M. Nelson, gave a beautiful talk about revelation in the April 2018 conference, called Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives. I wish to highlight some of his thoughts, and expound upon them with words from other - [What Matters](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/what-matters/) - Talk given October 2018 - “What Matters” I went to Maryland for five days earlier this month to help coach an event for e-commerce entrepenuers. I rubbed shoulders with multi-millionaires for days, but interestingly, I was never envious or greedy. My mind was not focused on how I could be like them. My mind just - [Forever Elle](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/forever-elle/) - Okay, Heather Chapman, I have read four of your works now, and this one is my absolute favorite!!!! Take my word for it, everyone, and READ THIS BOOK! I loved it. I couldn't put it down the past couple days. Every spare moment I got, I snuck in a chapter or two, and when I - [Little Heroes: Inventors Who Changed the World](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/little-heroes-inventors-who-changed-the-world/) - After reading, reviewing, and loving Heidi Poelman's Little Heroes: Courageous People Who Changed the World , I happily sought the opportunity to review her new book, Little Heroes: Inventors Who Changed the World. This cute book is set up the same way as the other, and is just as lovable, from the adorable artwork (thanks - [Lehi, Lehi, What Do You See?](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/lehi-lehi-what-do-you-see/) - Sandra Meaders is the author of the new children's book, Lehi, Lehi, What Do You See? The book is illustrated by Jeff Harvey. This book is set up very much like the beloved children's book, Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?, but uses characters from The Book of Mormon instead of animals. Each thing the - [Nita's First Signs](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/nitas-first-signs/) - I wish my little girl was younger so I could really use this book on her, because it is fantastic!!!! It is called Nita's First Signs and is by Kathy MacMillan, with illustrations by Sara Brezzi. My husband and I read the book together, trying the signs. It was fun. We practiced on each other - [Unicorn (And Horse)](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/unicorn-and-horse/) - I giggled a little when I opened the box and saw this book cover staring at me. Unicorn (And Horse) is a new children's book by David Miles and illustrated by Hollie Mengert. The most enjoyable part of the book for me was the illustrations. They showed the contrast between Horse and Unicorn's looks, and - [Quiet As A Church Mouse](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/quiet-as-a-church-mouse/) - Quiet as a Church Mouse is a story that comes straight from the childhood of author Stephen Bevan, who used to have trouble sitting reverently in church as a little boy. He wrote this book to help other youngsters like him use their imaginations to help them be more reverent. He thanks his dear mother - [Slide-N-Seek: Ocean](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/slide-n-seek-ocean/) - I was just given the opportunity to receive a copy of David Miles' Slide-N-Seek: Ocean books in exchange for my honest review, and I am so glad I got it! There are also two other books in this series! This idea of a slide-n-seek book is genius! Each page is full of glorious artwork with bright, - [Little Heroes: Courageous People Who Changed the World](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/little-heroes-courageous-people-who-changed-the-world/) - I was given the opportunity to receive a free copy of Heidi Poelman's new board book, Little Heroes: Courageous People Who Changed the World, in exchange for my honest review. All it took was the adorable artwork on the front page, and the title of the book, to put a smile on my face and suck - [A House Divided](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/a-house-divided/) - A little over a year ago, I had the privilege of reading Diane Stringam Tolley's novel, Daughter of Ishmael. I absolutely loved how she used the early stories of Lehi, his family, and the family of Ishmael, to create a beautiful story surrounding a young lady she named Hannah, one of the daughters of Ishmael. - [The Forgotten Girl](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-forgotten-girl/) - I was excited a month ago when author Heather Chapman contacted me about reading and reviewing her new novel, The Forgotten Girl. I had already read and reviewed two other works of hers: The Second Season and one of the stories from Unexpected Love: A Marriage of Convenience Anthology I didn't realize until after I was done reading - [Finding Beauty in the Beast](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/finding-beauty-in-the-beast/) - Before I start my review, I just want to say that Jessilyn Stewart Peaslee is a beautiful person. She is kind, fun, humble, gracious, and thoughtful. Most of the time when we read books we know nothing about the author, so I just wanted to tell you a little about what I know of her - [The Nativity Pageant](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-nativity-pageant/) - I absolutely love plays, and any type of production, big or small. So, I was super excited when Neil Johnson contacted me about reviewing his new Nativity Pageant. It is perfect! I love everything about it! He is very smart to add general instructions about cast size, narration, length of the show, etc. The - [A is for Adam](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/a-is-for-adam/) - I love doing book reviews of scriptural children's books. I was excited for this book which is an "Alphabet Book of Bible Heroes." It really is a cute idea. The descriptions of each story were good. The letters were usually a person, a name for Christ, or a principle of the gospel. The stories - [The Holy Ghost is My Friend](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-holy-ghost-is-my-friend/) - The Holy Ghost is My Friend is a book that every family should have. It is written for children to explain who the Holy Ghost is, what He does for us, and how to feel His promptings. The book is unlike any other I have ever seen. Each page has a hidden picture that you - [Expanding My Reach](https://ablisscomplete.com/expanding-my-reach/) - To help me reach a larger audience, I write for other sites and blogs. Family Share: How to know if what someone says about you is true Worrying about last-minute gifts for Christmas? You'll want to read this! Why I won't let my son share my last name 10 things I thought I would never do as - [I Can Love Like Jesus](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/i-can-love-like-jesus/) - I am always excited about Christian children's books. This one was no different. The book cover is beautiful and hardback. I read the book to my children last night, and they all had good things to say: Casey, the 12-year-old, loved the messages of the book, the beautiful artwork, and how Jesus was incorporated into - [Right Next to Me](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/right-next-to-me/) - About a year ago, I read and absolutely loved a new novel by Rachel Ward, called Dear Jane. So, when she contacted me asking me to read her new novel, Right Next to Me, I jumped at the chance. This new novel is told from the perspective of Sydney, a new high school graduate. She has a - [Heartbeat of the Bitterroot](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/heartbeat-of-the-bitterroot/) - After reading Janice Mineer's Heartbeat of the Bitterroot, I think I may need to take a vacation to the Bitterroot Valley someday. Just the author's beautiful imagery of the landscape kept me thoroughly involved in the novel, not to mention a complex love story, dangerous situations, complicated family life, and interesting, likable characters. I - [Unexpected Love: A Marriage of Convenience Anthology](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/unexpected-love-a-marriage-of-convenience-anthology/) - Unexpected Love was a fun read. It consisted of four stories all revolving around marriages of convenience. In each story, there was a good reason for the marriage (or at least, someone thought so). In some cases, it was the idea of one of the ones to be married, and in others, the idea was - [Dragonkyn](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/dragonkyn/) - I love doing book reviews, and when I saw the description of Dragonkyn, by Nathan Smith Jones, I wanted my 11-year-old to read it and give his review. He loves fantasy, and dragons. Overall, he liked the book. He loved the surprise factor - that the book was never predictable. He admired the trio - [‘Love Me True: Overcoming the Surprising Ways We Deceive in Relationships’](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/love-me-true-overcoming-the-surprising-ways-we-deceive-in-relationships/) - It has been a crazy couple weeks, and when I realized that my book review for a blog tour was due today, I almost considered writing the review without having finished it. But then, appalled at myself, I realized there was no way I could do that, considering this book is about being true and - [Daughter of Ishmael: Promised Land, Broken Heart](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/daughter-of-ishmael-promised-land-broken-heart/) - I have always loved the stories of the ancient prophet Lehi and his family from the Book of Mormon. I was intrigued at the idea of a novel written from the perspective of one of the daughters of Ishmael, whose family traveled with Lehi’s through the wilderness and then across the ocean to the promised - [Capturing Precious Moments](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/) - Taking pictures and videos of funny, adorable moments, brings me a lot of joy. Here are the ones that bring the most smiles to me: Singing to Eve Rigel's Prayer Kamren's First Day of Preschool Rigel's First Day of Kindergarten Rigel's Preschool Graduation Macaroni and Cheese Tradition MUMS Annual Christmas Program Love for Messiah Jad Al-Bjaly: - [Defenders of the Family](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/defenders-of-the-family/) - Defenders of the Family, by Benjamin Hyrum White, has quickly become one of my children’s favorite books. The first appeal for my boys was, of course, the picture images of super heroes. What little boy or girl doesn’t want to be able to be a hero? The pictures throughout the book, done by Jay Fontano, - [The Unsaid](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-unsaid/) - The Unsaid is the second novel by Aaron Blaylock. I had the pleasure of reading and reviewing his first book, The Land of Look Behind, and was excited to read this one too. Blaylock was bold in the writing of this novel. I admired the integration of his LDS beliefs into the story, such as the presence - [Ella's Will](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/ellas-will/) - The name of Jessilyn Stewart Peaslee became precious to me late last year, as soon as I read and fell completely in love with her first novel, Ella. I read many books last year as a frequent book reviewer for Cedar Fort Publishing, and her book was one of my top two favorites. Back in June of - [The Second Season](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-second-season/) - The Second Season is a new regency romance by Heather Chapman. I was not impressed at all with the book at first. The beginning chapter was rushed, and emotions were all over the place. I was worried the whole book would be that way. It certainly did not pique my interest, but I kept reading - [‘Blessing the Nephite Children’ and ‘The Holy Ghost’](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/blessing-the-nephite-children-and-the-holy-ghost/) - Catherine Christensen has published two new children's books - one for babies and toddlers, and one for children who have recently been baptized or who will be baptized soon. The first book is called 'Blessing the Nephite Children.' It is a colorful board book with cute, colorful pictures, accompanied by simple language - [The Last Messenger of Zitol](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-last-messenger-of-zitol/) - I neglected all cleaning and chores Saturday so I could finish reading Chelsea Dyreng's The Last Messenger of Zitol. My bed wasn't made, there were toys all over the floor, and I didn't go grocery shopping, but I didn't regret it. My couch hadn't felt so comfortable and exciting in quite some time. Chelsea is someone - [Kamren's First Day of Preschool](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/kamrens-first-day-of-preschool/) - It has just been Kamren and me at home each day for a month, and it has been so nice to spend quality time with him. I knew since last year, though, that he would be going to preschool this year. Every time we dropped Rigel off, or picked him up, he would be so - [Dear Jane](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/4002-2/) - Dear Jane, by Rachel Ward, was one of those books I wasn't super excited to read. The book cover and book description didn't sound very complex or interesting, but rather kind of cheesy and uncomplicated. If you read the book cover and think the same thing, read this book anyway, because the actual book - [The Echoing](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-echoing/) - The Echoing, by Jessica Blackburn, was a book that got better and better as it went along. It is a YA fiction novel that centers around a teenage girl named Rylee, who one day while taking a walk with her dog, encounters a strange blind woman in a hut. She introduces Rylee to a - [Rigel's First Day of Kindergarten](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/rigels-first-day-of-kindergarten/) - My shining star, Rigel, started Kindergarten at The Expedition School this Monday, August 1, 2016. I was a little nervous about him starting school, but knew he would be fine. After all, I had left him alone at the school with the two kindergarten teachers and some of his future classmates the week before for - [The Heavenly Cheese Dessert - Knafeh](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-heavenly-cheese-dessert-knafeh/) - Being from America, when I think dessert, I think of fudge, ice cream, brownies, cookies, cakes and pies. Well, that isn't really how desserts are in Jordan, where my husband is from. Once, my father-in-law sent us some Arabic sweets. One dessert was round and orange. Jad said it had cheese inside. I was confused. - [Jad's Lentil Soup](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/jads-lentil-soup/) - If you like simple, nutritious, and tasty soups, this soup is for you. Ingredients 1 jalapeno, finely chopped and de-seeded 6 baby carrots, chopped 2 small gold potatoes, chopped 2 red onions, very finely chopped 3 Maggi chicken bouillon cubes 3 cloves minced garlic 2 cups red lentils approx. 1/2 cup olive oil Salt and - [Feed My Sheep](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/feed-my-sheep/) - I delivered this talk for Sacrament Meeting in Mebane, NC on July 17, 2016. I have removed the stories to protect privacy. I hope you enjoy this very special topic: Jesus Christ said, “I am the good shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep. I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.” Jesus Christ knows - [Stuffed Zucchini/Cucumbers](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/stuffed-zucchinicucumbers/) - Jad made some fabulous stuffed cucumbers and zucchini for the 4th of July this year. It is so yummy and healthy. Try it out! Ingredients 2.5 cups rice 1 pound uncooked ground beef 4-5 green onions, finely chopped 1 bunch of finely chopped parsley 2 cloves - [Chocolate Chip Zucchini Bread](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/chocolate-chip-zucchini-bread/) - We have a garden and have had an overproduction of zucchini this year. So, we have had to be creative to use it all up. One of our favorite go-to recipes is Zucchini Bread. It is so good, my husband can't stop eating it. ;) Thank you to our friend, Christine, for introducing us to - [Why Adversity is Essential and Positive to our Lives](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/why-adversity-is-essential-and-positive-to-our-lives/) - I found this talk that I gave in Sacrament Meeting at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in a folder I had in my night table recently. I am not 100% sure when I wrote/gave this talk, but considering it was hand-written and I only used one side of each paper, I assume - [The Time Key](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-time-key/) - Wow! The Time Key by Melanie Bateman was absolutely brilliant! I have read many books for blog tours, and have given several 5 star reviews, but most of those books did not have the same caliber of story line, character development, and perfect mixture of period, mystery, science-fiction, and fantasy. I can only imagine how much - [Rigel's Preschool Graduation](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/rigels-preschool-graduation/) - Last week, May 26, 2016, our shining star, Rigel, graduated from MUM's Weekday School. We were so ecstatic and proud. All of the children were just adorable. Here the kids are in their white and navy, looking sharp, in front of the church. After a prayer by the pastor, it was time for the - [Macaroni and Cheese Tradition](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/macaroni-and-cheese-tradition/) - It was lunchtime on April 6, and Kamren asked me for macaroni and cheese. I, of course, obliged. Rigel wanted to help me "cook" it, so Kamren got the job of setting the table. He pointed to our outside picnic table. I immediately smiled. We had done that once before, and Kamren had apparently decided - [Born to Treason](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/born-to-treason/) - I absolutely adore historical fiction novels. They are so much more powerful than textbooks because we not only learn about events, but also the minds, hearts, and living conditions of the people involved in and around those events. In a historical fiction novel written right, we feel everything like the people living in the time - [The Sacred Gift of Childbirth](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-sacred-gift-of-childbirth/) - Back in February, Marie-Ange Bigelow, author of “The Sacred Gift of Childbirth: Making Empowered Choices for You and Your Baby,” contacted me and asked me to review her book. I was honored she sought me out and asked me, and readily agreed to do so. I must shamefully admit, though, that when she sent me - [Everyday MOMents](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/everyday-moments/) - In the introduction to her book, Jessica Poe says how a mother’s role is sacred and divine, and brings many great blessings. However, that knowledge often takes a backseat in her mind, instead of being at the forefront. She asked if she was the only one who felt the way. I thought, “No, Jessica, you - [For the Strength of Youth - Dating, Music and Dancing, and Entertainment and Media](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/for-the-strength-of-youth-dating-music-and-dancing-and-entertainment-and-media/) - Dating Young Women Manual 3, (1994), 126–28 I will date only those young men who live Church standards. I will attend only activities that meet Church standards. I will save physical intimacies for marriage. I will uphold high standards of modesty in my dress, language, and actions. I will make a list of personal - [By the Stars](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/by-the-stars/) - By the Stars, by Lindsay B. Ferguson, which is inspired by a true story, follows the life of Cal Morgan, a Mormon farm boy from the small town of Crescent, Utah. An elderly Cal is telling his story to a neighbor (the author of this novel, actually), and decided to start his story with a - [The Land of Look Behind](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-land-of-look-behind/) - While reading The Land of Look Behind, by Aaron Blaylock, I found myself holding my breath often, and fighting the increasing flutter of butterflies in my stomach. It was a book where I anxiously awaited what would happen next. I never knew what would happen, and was surprised over and over again. The book - [Jad's Savory Chicken Salad for Two](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/jads-savory-chicken-salad-for-two/) - My husband is a terrific cook. He uses spices expertly to make anything that would usually be boring into a masterpiece. Salad is no exception. His chicken salad is to die for. Here is the recipe: Chicken Ingredients and Directions: 1 Chicken breast, cut into pieces 1 tbsp any vinegar 1/2 tbsp salt Juice of - [The Matchup](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-matchup/) - Looking at the front cover of The Matchup, by Laura L. Walker, I was expecting a simple and cheesy love story without a lot of depth. Well, to my delight and satisfaction, that couldn’t have been further from the truth. This book portrays the pain, low self-confidence, loneliness, sometimes recklessness, and lack of hope that - [Save Matthias](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/save-matthias/) - About six weeks ago, Matt Bielert contacted me on Instagram and asked me to review his new novel, Save Matthias. I was excited for the opportunity, and happily agreed. I must apologize to him for not reading and publishing my review before his book release, but better late than never! This book, though lengthy, and - [Latter-day Warriors: Stepping into Your Spiritual Strength](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/latter-day-warriors-stepping-into-your-spiritual-strength/) - When I first saw the synopsis for Latter-day Warriors, I knew I wanted it for my sons. When I received it in the mail, I was excited to have my oldest son, Casey, read it. In the book, Brock Richardson interviews multiple football players and their wives. Casey loved reading each of their stories, his - [MUMS Annual Christmas Program](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/mums-annual-christmas-program/) - Our four-year-old son, Rigel, attends MUMS Weekday School on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. He loves the school, his teacher, Mrs. Andrews, and his best friends, Avarie and Peyton. Last night, December 18, 2015, the whole school, ages 2-5, performed a variety of Christmas songs for families to enjoy. The sanctuary was filled with excited parents, - [More Than the Tattooed Mormon](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/more-than-the-tattooed-mormon/) - Before reading More Than the Tattooed Mormon, I didn’t know much about Al Fox Carraway. I had seen her pictures, found her intriguing, and figured she must have a pretty cool conversion story, but that was the extent of it. But after just finishing her book (I read it all today), I feel a bond - [Soda Springs](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/soda-springs/) - From beginning to end, I loved every moment of this book. From the first page, readers know that there is a secret, and maybe danger coming. They know that something is about to change in the lives of the Darrow family. I knew I wanted to do the blog tour for this book just from - [Shadows of Angels](https://ablisscomplete.com/expanding-my-reach/shadows-of-angels/) - Shadows of Angels is a new YA Fantasy novel by L.G. Rollins. It most definitely holds true to being a fantasy novel with plenty of legend, transformation, journeys, danger, white and black magic, and great sources of power. I didn’t realize this novel was YA until I was finished, and I will be honest, I - [Christmas Wonders](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/christmas-wonders/) - When I first opened my package holding Christmas Wonders, I was awed by the beauty of the book cover. I knew the contents would be just as lovely. Woven within feelings of sadness, loneliness, and curiosity, Robyn Buttars creates a touching and tender story of friendship, community, family and personal growth. It is a simple, - [Ella](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/ella/) - When I first signed up to do a blog tour for Ella, a new novel by Jessilyn Stewart Peaslee, I was a little skeptical about another Cinderella retelling. I had read a retelling just a couple months back, and it was flawless. I doubted this book could measure up. Well, I was wrong – really - [The Cenote](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-cenote/) - My friend, Chelsea Dyreng, recently published a book called The Cenote. I have been reviewing books from Cedar Fort Publishing for a while, and I always enjoy it. Reviewing a friend’s book is a little different. It is a little intimidating, but also exciting because you know that your review will be read and - [The Book with No Pictures](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-book-with-no-pictures/) - The Book with No Pictures, by BJ Novak, is the first children's book I have seen with absolutely no pictures at all. It isn't boring, though! It keeps my children's attention, and gets them rolling with laughter every time. They quote the book, and laugh as they quote it. The book is fun for so - [Sterling Bridge](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/sterling-bridge/) - On October 21 of this year, I was pleasantly surprised to receive an email from Chad Parker, the author of a brand new book, called Sterling Bridge. He wrote: “I am the author of “Sterling Bridge,” an historical fiction film novel (a short 140 page read) about a little known story of a true Utah - [Creamy Chicken and Vegetable Potato Soup](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/creamy-chicken-and-vegetable-potato-soup/) - This is my husband, Jad's, creation. He brought leftovers to work today, and the consensus was this was the best potato soup they had ever had. Guess what? It's easy too. Try it and tell me what you think! Ingredients 5 medium red potatoes with skin 3 cloves of garlic, minced 1 medium onion, diced - [The Kentucky Sunbeams](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-kentucky-sunbeams/) - I am not a person who generally turns to the country station, or goes to blue grass festivals. For some reason, though, when I hear the banjo, fiddle, and guitar playing, along with the twang of cheerful voices, I can’t help but smile, tap my foot, and get the urge to dance. I recently got - [From Baptist Preacher to Mormon Teacher](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/from-baptist-preacher-to-mormon-teacher/) - I don’t think I have pulled out a highlighter on purpose with a book since I was in college. Well, that all changed when I got a mere halfway through the first chapter of From Baptist Preacher to Mormon Teacher: I knew that I was going to want to keep a highlighter in my hand - [Papa's Book of Mormon Christmas](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/papas-book-of-mormon-christmas/) - I was so excited to receive this new book in exchange for my honest review. A book that combines The Book of Mormon and Christmas should be wonderful! I pulled it out one night, and read it to my children. My two oldest kids paid attention the whole way through, while my youngest wandered around. - [Casters of Doovik](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/casters-of-doovik/) - My 10-year-old son, Casey, who loved Benotripia so much, was thrilled to read another book by the same author, called Casters of Doovik. The first thing he said after he was done was “This book needs a sequel!” He had a hard time putting it down. He wanted to keep reading because of how exciting and - [The Gift Giver](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/the-gift-giver/) - In the world we live in, Christmastime is largely associated with Santa Claus, presents, and stockings, so it can be difficult to teach and show our children what Christmas is really about – the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Thankfully, there is a new book, called The Gift Giver, by Jacob Haslem and Nick - [When Beauty is a Beast](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/when-beauty-is-a-beast/) - Pretty cool title, huh? Well that isn't all of it. There is a subtitle: Avoiding 10 Things WOMEN do that HARM their RELATIONSHIPS. Before any of my fellow ladies get angry and annoyed at this seemingly sexist title, and want to ask, "What about the things men do?," C.C. Sorensen fully acknowledges that in many cases, men definitely - [Benotripia](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/benotripia/) - My 10-year-old son, Casey, was so excited when I got this book in the mail, and asked him to read it. He had no complaints, and dug right in. When he was finished, he said that he really liked Benotripia, and that it was a really good book full of adventure and magic – two - [Out of the Ashes](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/out-of-the-ashes/) - Out of the Ashes is inspired by the Cinderella story. I must make a very bold statement: I like Out of the Ashes much better. As beautiful as Cinderella is, it truly pales in comparison to the heart, fun, despair, love story, and magic of Out of the Ashes. This book quenched my thirst, and - [Bearskin](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/bearskin/) - I just finished reading a brand new novel, Bearskin¸ by first time novelist Jamie Robyn Wood. I eagerly gulped down the words until I set the book down in satisfaction, having read the final page. It is a wonderful book that adults and youth alike will love, and I felt it very appropriate for young - [Festive Feasts: Meals and Memories from Halloween to Christmas](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/festive-feasts-meals-and-memories-from-halloween-to-christmas/) - I don’t usually buy cookbooks anymore because I just browse online recipe blogs and sites, or go to Pinterest. Well, I think this is one cookbook I will really appreciate having every holiday season. First of all, the pictures of the dishes are clear, beautiful, and make your mouth water. When my husband and I - [FLIM FLAM & OTHER SUCH GOBBLEDYGOOK](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/flim-flam-other-such-gobbledygook/) - I am so excited to tell you about a new children's book with probably the coolest title I have ever seen. The message itself is far from gobbledygook. It is profound, and truly applicable to human civility. When I read the book to my children, these were their reactions: From my 10-year-old: He first noted - [Rigel's first day of preschool](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/rigels-first-day-of-preschool/) - I can't believe Rigel is old enough to be in preschool now. He is, though, and he has been waiting for this day for a long time! We feel so blessed where he is concerned. At first, he did not get into the preschool many of our friends' kids did - the only preschool in - [The special dish of my childhood](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-special-dish-of-my-childhood/) - When I was a kid, my mom had a specialty she would make sometimes. I was always so excited to eat it. It is called pepper steak. It is still a dish we get excited to eat when she makes it. I made it once years ago, and decided to try it again last week. - [Butterscotch and Rainbow Chip Cookie Golden Oreo Bars](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/butterscotch-and-rainbow-chip-cookie-golden-oreo-bars/) - Yeah, they taste even better than they sound. This recipe was born from me trying to make Oreo cookie filled chocolate chip cookies. I was having a lot of trouble. I mean, they tasted fabulous, but looked horrible (next time I think I will use a muffin tin). So, I decided to use the rest - [It all started with rainbow chips](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/it-all-started-with-rainbow-chips/) - My brother, Aaron, wanted me to make rainbow chip cake for his birthday this year, as it was always one of his (really everybody's) favorite cakes growing up. Well, I found the rainbow chip cake mix, but I couldn't find the icing anywhere. Such a bummer! I was going to just make vanilla frosting instead, - [To be a Humansperson](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/to-be-a-humansperson/) - “Your mistakes are what make you human.” – Tip “It is not what makes you Boov.” – Oh Dreamworks' Home is one of my new favorite movies of all time. We saw it twice in the theater and have watched it twice at home since it came out on DVD. Every time I watch it, - [Quinoa Deliciousness](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/quinoa-deliciousness/) - So, I have a confession. I had never had quinoa before until a couple days ago. I had bought some recently to try, but never used it... until we had way too many cucumbers in the house. I was researching what else you can do with cucumbers, and I found out you can actually cook them - [Garlic Sausage, Green Beans and Red Potatoes](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/garlic-sausage-green-beans-and-red-potatoes/) - I came up with this recipe last night. It was delicious. Jad was wiping the pan clean. :) Ingredients 13 oz. Turkey Sausage Kielbasa (I used Butterball) 1 lb. frozen green beans 2.5 lbs. of unpeeled red potatoes 1 large tomato 2 TBSP olive oil x 2 1 tsp garlic powder x 3 1 tsp - [Moroni 8-9](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/moroni-8-9/) - Moroni 8 – In this epistle to Moroni, Mormon focuses on the mercy of God and how the Atonement of Jesus Christ saves little children. VS1-2 – “Mindful of you” Dieter F. Uchtdorf said, “I testify that God is in His heaven. He lives. He knows and loves you. He is mindful of you. He - [Moroni 7](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/moroni-7/) - Moroni 7 – Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught that righteous motives give “life and legitimacy to the acts of the believer”(Pure in Heart [1998], 16). Mormon also taught the importance of acting with righteous intent. He taught that there is a difference between doing good works with real intent and simply going through the motions. Through Mormon’s teachings, we can grow in our understanding that faith, hope, and charity should guide all our actions." VS2–3 - “The Rest of the Lord” 1. The scriptures often speak of “the rest of the Lord.” After quoting Moroni 7:3, President Joseph F. Smith (1838–1918) wrote: “This is a very significant passage. The rest here referred to is not physical rest, for - [Moroni 1-6](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/moroni-1-6/) - Moroni 1-6 Introduction The first six chapters of the book of Moroni deal with ordinances and practices of the Church in Moroni’s day: baptism, confirmation and the gift of the Holy Ghost, conferral of the priesthood and ordination to offices in the priesthood, the sacrament, fellowshipping new members, and conducting Church meetings. Moroni included these teachings because he felt that “perhaps they may be of worth unto [his] brethren, the Lamanites, in some future day” (Moroni 1:4). These teachings are of worth to all people, and we practice these things in our church today. Moroni 1 – Moroni has to hide because the Lamanites were killing all who would not deny the Christ. He continues to write things which will be of benefit - [Ether 11-15](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/ether-11-15/) - Ether 11-15 Ether 11 - The Final Stages of Jaredite Civilization As with the Nephites, the Jaredite society repeatedly moved through the cycle of prosperity, apostasy, judgment, repentance, prosperity, and so on. Eventually, as with the Nephites, the depths of apostasy and wickedness became increasingly fatal. Ether 11 recounts the final stages of the Jaredite cycle - [Ether 6-10](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/ether-6-10/) - Introduction to Ether 6-10 In Ether 6–10, Moroni told of the Jaredites’ journey across the ocean to the promised land. He then summarized the reigns of several generations of kings, contrasting periods of righteousness with periods of wickedness and conflict. Moroni observed many similarities between the Jaredites and his own people, the Nephites. He described - [Ether 1-5](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/ether-1-5/) - Introduction to Ether The Book of Mormon is not arranged in chronological order. If it were, the book of Ether would be listed first. The Jaredite record begins approximately 2200 B.C. First Nephi begins in 600 B.C. The book of Ether covers over 1,700 years of history from 2200 B.C. down to the time of Coriantumr. We don’t - [Mormon 7-9](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/mormon-7-9/) - Introduction By studying the final testimony of Mormon and the initial writings of Moroni, you will better understand the role and purpose of the Book of Mormon. Moroni declared: “I speak unto you as if ye were present, and yet ye are not. But behold, Jesus Christ hath shown you unto me, and I know - [Mormon 1-6](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/mormon-1-6/) - Mormon 1 - At age 10, Mormon is instructed to get the sacred records when he is 24. At age 11, wars began to start between the Lamanites and Nephites. There was peace for about four years, but the Three Nephites are taken away due to the people’s wickedness. At age 15, Mormon sees Jesus. - [3 Nephi 23-26](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-23-26/) - 3Nephi 23 – Jesus asked the people to search and study the words of Isaiah. He reviewed the Nephite records and asked for a prophecy of Samuel the Lamanite to be recorded. VS1 - “Great Are the Words of Isaiah” 1. President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, wrote of the - [3 Nephi 20-22](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-20-22/) - 3 Nephi 20-22 - The events prophesied in these chapters, including the coming forth of the Book of Mormon and the establishment of the Church in the last days, are evidence that the Lord’s kindness will not depart from His people. The gathering of the Lord’s people in the last days reveals that He will - [3 Nephi 27-30](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-27-30/) - 3Nephi 27 – Jesus talks to the disciples that the name of the church should have His name in it. He talks about His gospel and about being like Him. VS 1-2 – Disciples engaged in mighty prayer and fasting President Spencer W. Kimball highlights a few circumstances in which we should pray for help: “We - [3 Nephi 18-19](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-18-19/) - 3 Nephi 18 - As Jesus Christ concluded the first day of His ministry among the Nephites, He administered the sacrament. He commanded them to partake of the sacrament, pray to the Father always, and extend fellowship to all people. The Savior promised great blessings to those who obeyed. He then gave the twelve Nephite - [3 Nephi 15-17](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-15-17/) - 3 Nephi 15 – Jesus announces that the law of Moses is fulfilled. He speaks of His other sheep being the Nephites and how there will be one fold and one shepherd. VS1 – “Who remembereth these sayings and doeth them, him will I raise up at the last day.” Up until this point, Jesus - [4 Nephi](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/4-nephi/) - 4th Nephi - Introduction Fourth Nephi covers the nearly 200 years of unity and harmony following Jesus Christ’s visit to the Americas. The people “were all converted unto the Lord” (4 Nephi 1:2), resulting in a society that people of all ages have dreamed of. Tragically, the second half of 4 Nephi reveals how a righteous and happy people allowed pride and apostasy to enter their lives, bringing theeventual destruction of their society. VS2 - “The People Were All Converted unto the Lord” 1. President Marion G. Romney (1897–1988) of the First Presidency gave the following insight regarding the meaning of true conversion: “Webster [dictionary] says the verb, ‘convert,’ means ‘to turn from one belief or course to another.’ - [Guide to sharing the gospel on Facebook](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/guide-to-sharing-the-gospel-on-facebook/) - I wrote this checklist last year for the Raleigh, NC mission office, of ways that members and missionaries can share the gospel and connect on Facebook: A. Set a Good Example 1. Go through your FB page and delete old pictures, liked pages, books, movies, TV shows, groups, etc., that are inappropriate. 2. Do not - [I Love You Through and Through](https://ablisscomplete.com/enjoying-uplifting-entertainment/i-love-you-through-and-through/) - This is my absolute favorite book to read Kamren. The illustrations are adorable, and the overall theme is about how much a parent loves her child. Kam always sits in my lap eagerly when I read this one. This book makes him giggle because he likes to react to the things the book says. He - [The nearly crumbless cookie](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-nearly-crumbless-cookie/) - I don't like bananas, but I love this banana cookie. The banana taste isn't overpowering, and the cookie is soft and fluffy. The best part is, it isn't messy! I did an experiment. To be sure about my findings, I ate multiple cookies. The finding was always the same: after eating an entire cookie, there - [Casey's 4th Grade Awards Ceremony](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/caseys-4th-grade-awards-ceremony/) - On Casey's last day of school, June 12, 2015, parents were invited to go to their child's classroom for class award ceremonies. I eagerly went, gratefully leaving the little ones with their Teta. I was the only parent who came, and the whole process was incredibly informal, taking about five minutes. Casey's teacher, Ms. Lingle, - [Kamren's first dentist appointment](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/kamrens-first-dentist-appointment/) - Just in case we weren't feeling like our little one was growing up enough, on June 10, 2015, he had his first dentist appointment. Well, it was really Rigel's appointment. Rigel loves going to the dentist, and he loves Jenelle, his dental hygienist. Jenelle was so sweet to fit Kamren into Rigel's appointment time to - [Kamren's new bed](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/kamrens-new-bed/) - May 29, 2015, we realized that Kamren could climb into his crib. We were excited and nervous at the same time. We were proud too, of how high he could hoist his leg up. Gymnast material right there: We knew pretty soon he was going to be climbing out too. One Saturday afternoon, on June - [My guilty pleasure](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/my-guilty-pleasure/) - Sometimes I have really stressful days. The kids are being crazy, I haven't had time to eat a good lunch, I am exhausted, I have no motivation... On days like that, I make this: Edible Cookie Dough for One Ingredients 1/2 cup packed brown sugar 2 TBSP butter, softened 1/8 tsp vanilla 1 and 1/2 - [The best pound cake I have ever had](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-best-pound-cake-i-have-ever-had/) - I made pound cake last month to eat with strawberries and whipped cream. It was the best pound cake I have ever had in my life. It was fluffy, delicious, and oh so moist. You could eat it without any glaze or toppings. Here is the luscious (and easy) recipe for Mama's Pound Cake by - [Savory Sausage and Pinto Bean Soup](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/savory-sausage-and-pinto-bean-soup/) - This is the first recipe of Jad's to ever be documented! Some people throw things together, and it's just OK. Jad throws things together, and it's so flavorful, you can't stop eating it. Below is his approximate recipe (as he doesn't measure anything): Ingredients 1 small Vidalia onion, chopped 1 large tomato, diced 3 med - [3 Nephi 12-14](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-12-14/) - 3 Nephi 12–14 - A Blueprint for Our Lives The Sermon on the Mount as contained in both the Bible and the Book of Mormon is the Lord’s blueprint for perfection. Of this sermon, President Harold B. Lee (1899–1973) said: “Christ came not only into the world to make an atonement for the sins of mankind but - [3 Nephi 8-11](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-8-11/) - 3Nephi 8 - Thirty-three years after seeing the sign of the Savior’s birth, the Nephites began to look for the sign that Samuel the Lamanite had prophesied of the Savior’s death. Although many signs were given, doubts and disputations arose among the people. Within the next year, Samuel’s prophecy was fulfilled. After great storms, earthquakes, - [3 Nephi 5-7](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-5-7/) - 3Nephi 5 – The Nephites, after realizing the Lord helped them defeat the Gadianton robbers, had faith in Christ and repented of their sins. Mormon called himself a disciple of Christ and told of his writings of the history of his people. VS1–3 - Faith Leads to Repentance and All Good Works While serving as - [3 Nephi 1-4](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-nephi-1-4/) - 3 Nephi - President Ezra Taft Benson taught: “3 Nephi contains some of the most moving and powerful passages in all scripture. It testifies of Jesus Christ, His prophets, and the doctrines of salvation” (“The Savior’s Visit to America,” Ensign,‍ May 1987, 6). 3 Nephi 1 – When the time drew near for the fulfillment of - [Helaman 13-16](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/helaman-13-16/) - Helaman 13-16: Introduction The gospel of Jesus Christ‍ offers all people the opportunity to change. Throughout much of the Book of Mormon, the Lamanites’ “deeds [had] been evil”; however, “the preaching of the Nephites” (Helaman 15:4) led “the more part of them” to receive the gospel (Helaman 6:1) and experience a mighty change of heart. - [Helaman 9-12](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/helaman-9-12/) - Helaman 9 – At the end of chapter 8, Nephi prophesies that the chief judge has been murdered by his brother who wanted the judgment seat. In Chapter 9, five men go to verify this information. The true murderer is identified. Some identify Nephi as a prophet, or even a God. Day One of the - [Helaman 1-4](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/helaman-1-4/) - Helaman 1 – Pahoran II becomes chief judge and is murdered by Kishkumen. Coriantumr takes Zarahemla and slays Pacumeni. Moronihah slays Coriantumr and retakes Zarahemla. VS1-8 –Who would be the new chief judge? Contentions began among the Nephites after Pahoran died. Three of his sons contend for the judgment seat, causing three divisions among the - [Alma 60-63](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-60-63/) - At the end of Alma 59, we know that Moroni is angry because of the needless suffering of the Nephite armies. He thinks the government is indifferent about the freedom of the people. Alma 60- Moroni writes a passionate, angry letter to Pahoran, the chief judge in Zarahemla. He says if Pahoran doesn’t send help - [Alma 56-59](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-56-59/) - Chapters 56-58 are an epistle from Helaman to Moroni regarding his stripling warriors’ successes against the Lamanites. Alma 56 - The armies of Antipus and Helaman are victorious over the strongest army of the Lamanites. Definition: Stripling means young. VS3-8 – Helaman tells of Stripling Warriors Helaman explained to Moroni about how his little army - [Alma 52-55](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-52-55/) - Alma 52 – Ammaron takes over as Lamanite King. Teancum, Moroni and Lehi defeat the Lamanites in a fight for Mulek. After Amalackiah’s death, his brother Ammoron took command of the Lamanite armies. Moroni gave Teancum instructions to continue to fortify and protect the northern portion of the land Bountiful and retake any Nephite cities - [Alma 49-51](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-49-51/) - Moroni – read 48:11-13, 16-17 Protecting Freedom – An Immediate Responsibility October 1966 Ezra Taft Benson – “Why have prophets of God been commanded to proclaim liberty and lead the battle to preserve freedom? Because freedom is basic to the great plan of the Lord. The gospel can prosper only in an atmosphere of freedom. - [Alma 46-48](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-46-48/) - Alma 46 – Amalickiah wants to be a king and gathers followers. Moroni raises Title of Liberty and rallied the righteous to defend their rights and religion. VS1-10 – We learned at the end of Chapter 45 that as Helaman and his brethren were preaching, many would not listen because of pride. These dissenters were - [Alma 43-45](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-43-45/) - Alma 43 – In the 18th year of the reign of the judges, the Zoramites who did not repent of their sins joined with the Lamanites. The Lamanites, led by Zarahemnah went to war with the Nephite army, led by Captain Moroni. Some people wonder why the Book of Mormon contains so much about war. - [Moroni 10](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/moroni-10/) - Moroni 10 In Moroni’s final testimony, he exhorts us to pay attention to three principles. First, he writes about the importance of coming to know for ourselves the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon. Second, Moroni focuses on the pursuit of the spiritual gifts that Heavenly Father bestows upon His faithful children. Finally, Moroni exhorts - [Alma 40-42](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/alma-40-42/) - Intro In chapters 40-42, Alma (the younger) is talking to his son, Corianton, who had committed serious sexual sin while serving a mission among the Zoramites. His son was confused about many points of doctrine. By clarifying these points, Alma will help his son want to repent. ______________________________________________________________________ Chapter 40 –Resurrection and Spirit World V2 - [If I can make perfect rolls, you can too!](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/if-i-can-make-perfect-rolls-you-can-too/) - I do not like making bread, especially yeast bread. Normally, the dough doesn't rise for me, or I make such a big mess with flour, I just regret it. Well, a couple weeks ago, I decided to give it a shot. We were having the sister missionaries over, and we had no bread to serve. - [You won't be able to say you don't like cauliflower after you try this.](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/you-wont-be-able-to-say-you-dont-like-cauliflower-after-you-try-this/) - I am a member of a book club, and many of the women are health conscious. A few months ago, our hostess made roasted cauliflower. I wasn't going to try it, but then I did, and that was my favorite flavor of the night. A couple months down the road, I decided to make some - [The easiest and tastiest cake ever!](https://ablisscomplete.com/cooking-with-mr-and-mrs-applejelly/the-easiest-and-tastiest-cake-ever/) - Earlier this month, we had our fun neighbors, Kirk, Melissa and Thomas, over for a late Sunday lunch. After we ate, I brought out a cake I was so excited to try. Melissa saw it, and asked, "Is that gooey butter cake?" I laughed in surprise. I had never had it before, but she apparently - [Jad Al-Bjaly: MyComputerCareer graduate - May 28, 2015](https://ablisscomplete.com/capturing-precious-moments/jad-al-bjaly-mycomputercareer-graduate/) - Yesterday afternoon, the kids and I battled terrible traffic (to the beautiful sound of the Rugrats Movie) to attend Jad's graduation ceremony from MyComputerCareer. We made it in the nick of time, and were excited to see him waiting outside for us. The building is beautiful, with glass doors and windows everywhere. The elevators were - [Talk - Ward Mission Plan](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-ward-mission-plan/) - Our Ward Mission Plan has four parts: Love the Lord, Be a Friend, Invite Weekly, and Pray Daily. These four things will help draw closer to our Father in Heaven and our Savior, Jesus Christ. Matt 22:37-38 reads, Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt alove the Lord thy God with all thy bheart, and with - [Talk - Gratitude](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-gratitude/) - Doctrine and Covenants 59:21 reads, “And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments.” President James E. Faust said that this is “more than a social courtesy; it is a binding commandment.” Lastly, 1 Thessalonians - [Talk - Temple Worship](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-temple-worship/) - Today I have the pleasure of speaking to you about going to the temple My remarks will stem from Richard G. Scott’s talk entitled: Temple Worship: The Source of Strength and Power in Times of Need. I will also be utilizing much of the manual entitled Preparing to Enter the Holy Temple, which are the - [Talk - Member Missionary Work](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-member-missionary-work/) - Brothers and Sisters, I stand before you with such excitement to be able to speak to you today about how to be a better member missionary. President Eyring has said: “Whatever our age, capacity, Church calling, or location, we are as one called to the work to help Him in His harvest of souls.” Today - [Talk - Celestial Kingdom](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-celestial-kingdom/) - Intro Brothers and sisters, the Lord has declared, “This is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” Russell M Nelson explained, “Resurrection, or immortality, comes to every man and every woman as an unconditional gift. Eternal life is a conditional gift.” Close quote After this life, we will be - [Talk - Christlike Life](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/talk-christlike-life/) - President Harold B. Lee taught that: “Christ came not only into the world to make an atonement for the sins of mankind but to set an example before the world of the standard of perfection of God’s law and of obedience to the Father. In his Sermon on the Mount the Master has given us - [For the Strength of Youth - Gratitude and Service](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/for-the-strength-of-youth-gratitude-and-service/) - Gratitude He who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious. Doctrine and Covenants 78:19 The Lord wants you to have a spirit of gratitude in all you do and say. Live with a spirit of thanksgiving and you will have greater happiness and satisfaction in life. Even in your most difficult times, you - [Protection from Pornography—a Christ-Focused Home - Linda S. Reeves - April 2014](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/protection-from-pornography-a-christ-focused-home-linda-s-reeves-april-2014/) - I am very happy to be teaching this lesson today. Pornography is a topic that is close to my heart, for my first husband struggled with it immensely. I know today’s topic may be a little uncomfortable, and I don’t expect you to give lots of personal experiences. If you have any questions about my - [The Cost and Blessings of Discipleship - Jeffrey R. Holland – April 2014](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/the-cost-and-blessings-of-discipleship-jeffrey-r-holland-april-2014/) - Before we start discussing this talk, I want to make sure we all know what it means to be a disciple. I have a couple definitions. One comes from Elder Bednar’s most recent conference address. He says: “Devoted disciples of Jesus Christ always have been and always will be valiant missionaries. A missionary is a - [Wide Awake to Our Duties - Carole M. Stephens - October 2012](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/wide-awake-to-our-duties-carole-m-stephens-october-2012/) - My lesson today is based on a talk given by Carole M Stephens, first counselor in the RS General Presidency in last year’s General RS Meeting. The talk is entitled “Wide Awake to our Duties.” She quotes Sister Dina D Young, who was the third General RS President. She said, “Sisters, it is for us - [19. Inasmuch as Parents Have Children in Zion](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/19-inasmuch-as-parents-have-children-in-zion/) - Lesson 19 – Inasmuch as Parents Have Children in Zion DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW “Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. “As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. “Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of - [8. Intimacy in Marriage and 18. Fidelity in Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/8-intimacy-in-marriage-and-18-fidelity-in-marriage/) - Lesson 8 - Intimacy in Marriage DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW “And they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). President Spencer W. Kimball taught: “There are many aspects to love in marriage, and sex is an important one. Just as married partners are not for others, they are for each other. Paul knew the approaches to adultery and - [17. Respecting Your Spouse](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/17-respecting-your-spouse/) - Lesson 17 – Respecting Your Spouse DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW “Brethren, treat your wives with love and respect and kindness. And, wives, you treat your husbands with love and respect and kindness” (Gordon B. Hinckley, Teachings of Gordon B. Hinckley [1997], 209). “Under the gospel plan marriage is a companionship, with equality between the partners. We walk - [16. Keeping Love Alive](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/16-keeping-love-alive/) - Lesson 16 - KEEPING LOVE ALIVE DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW Paul taught, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it” (Ephesians 5:25). PRINCIPLE Couples nourish love in their marriages by following correct principles. Elder Boyd K. Packer, then a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles: “If you - [13. Money and Marriage and 14. Managing Temporal Resources](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/13-money-and-marriage-and-14-managing-temporal-resources/) - Lesson 13 – Money and Marriage DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW “Ye will not suffer your children that they go hungry, or naked” (Mosiah 4:14). “Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs. . . . Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before - [12. Prioritizing Life's Demands and and 15. Mothers' Employment Outside the Home](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/12-prioritizing-lifes-demands-and-and-15-mothers-employment-outside-the-home/) - Lesson 12 – Prioritizing Life’s Demands DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW President Spencer W. Kimball spoke of “the need to do the things that matter most without leaving the other things undone” (in Conference Report, Apr. 1976, 70; or Ensign, May 1976, 46). Elder Russell M. Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles explained, “Perhaps if you, - [10. Men's Divine Roles and 11. Women's Divine Roles](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/10-mens-divine-roles-and-11-womens-divine-roles/) - Men’s Divine Roles DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW “Our Heavenly Father endowed His sons and daughters with unique traits especially fitted for their individual responsibilities as they fulfill His plan. To follow His plan requires that you do those things He expects of you as a son or daughter, husband or wife” (Richard G. Scott; in Conference Report, - [9. Differences Inherent between Men and Women](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/9-differences-inherent-between-men-and-women/) - Lesson 9 – Differences Inherent Between Men and Women Elder Henry B. Eyring of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles applied this concept to the marriage relationship: “A man and his wife learn to be one by using their similarities to understand each other and their differences to complement each other in serving one another - [7. Traditions of the Fathers](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/7-traditions-of-the-fathers/) - 7 TRADITIONS OF THE FATHERs DOCTRINAL OVERVIEW The family that we are born into or grow up in is where we learn the “traditions of our fathers” (Enos 1:14; see Proverbs 22:6). Traditions are knowledge, customs, practices, and beliefs handed down from generation to generation. Fathers means male and female ancestors on both the mother’s - [6.Righteous Unity in Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/6-righteous-unity-in-marriage/) - Lesson 6 – Righteous Unity in Marriage "Be determined in one mind and in one heart, united in all things” (2 Nephi 1:21). “And the Lord called his people Zion, because they were of one heart and one mind, and dwelt in righteousness” (Moses 7:18). PRINCIPLE Achieving a righteous unity with our spouse increases the - [5. Communication Fundamentals in Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/5-communication-fundamentals-in-marriage/) - Lesson 5 – Communication Fundamentals in Marriage “Our communications reflect in our countenance. Therefore, we must be careful not only what we communicate, but also how we do so. Souls can be strengthened or shattered by the message and the manner in which we communicate” (L. Lionel Kendrick, in Conference Report, Oct. 1988, 28; or - [4. Spirituality in Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/4-spirituality-in-marriage/) - Lesson 4 – Spirituality in Marriage PRINCIPLE “If two people love the Lord more than their own lives and . . . both work together for the upbuilding of the kingdom of God, then happiness is at its pinnacle.” Spencer W. Kimball Quotes page 157 Elder Orson Pratt “The more righteous a people become the - [3. Keeping the Sacred Covenant of Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/3-keeping-the-sacred-covenant-of-marriage/) - Lesson 3 – Keeping the Sacred Covenant of Marriage Principle: Obeying covenants made during sacred ordinances increases the power of godliness in our Marriage. D&C 84 - 20 Therefore, in the aordinances thereof, the power of bgodliness is manifest. 21 And without the ordinances thereof, and the aauthority of the priesthood, the power of godliness is bnot - [2. The Joy of Marriage](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/2-the-joy-of-marriage/) - Lesson 2 – The Joy of Marriage “Happiness in marriage and parenthood can exceed a thousand times any other happiness” (James E. Faust, in Conference Report, Oct. 1977, 14; or Ensign, Nov. 1977, 8). Principle: If couples obey the gospel principles that lead to marital happiness, marriage can bring a more “exultant ecstasy than the - [1. Eternal Perspective](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/1-eternal-perspective/) - An Eternal Perspective Elder Merrill J. Bateman, a member of the Seventy, stated: “A view of marriage and the family based on eternal principles increases the probability of success. When one takes the long view, one tries harder to be patient, long-suffering, kind, gentle, and meek. These characteristics, in turn, strengthen the marriage” (“The Eternal - [Called to Serve (Ch 1 MPM), Personal Worthiness (Ch 2 MPM), Blessings that come from sharing the gospel (Intro to PEM)](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/called-to-serve-ch-1-mpm-personal-worthiness-ch-2-mpm-blessings-that-come-from-sharing-the-gospel-intro-to-pem/) - What is the gospel? 3 Nephi 27 13 Behold I have given unto you my gospel, and this is the gospel which I have given unto you—that I came into the world to do the will of my Father, because my Father sent me. 14 And my Father sent me that I might be lifted up upon - [How to involve our kids in sharing the gospel/ How to share gospel with less active friends and family/Chapter 12 (PEM)](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/how-to-involve-our-kids-in-sharing-the-gospel-how-to-share-gospel-with-less-active-friends-and-family/) - How to involve our kids in sharing the gospel https://www.lds.org/children/resources/topics/missionary-work https://www.lds.org/ensign/1986/04/teaching-children-to-share-the-gospel?lang=eng http://media.ldscdn.org/pdf/lds-magazines/friend-june-2012/2012-06-27-question-corner-eng.pdf When, as a family, we earnestly begin missionary work, we will feel our own enthusiasm for the gospel increasing. Our family members will live the teachings of the gospel more closely because they will want to set a good example for others. We - [Christlike Attributes (Ch 14 MPM) and Building the Kingdom of God (Part 3 PEM)/ How to support people you helped convert](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/christlike-attributes-ch-14-mpm-and-building-the-kingdom-of-god-part-3-pem-how-to-support-people-you-helped-convert/) - Chapter 14 MPM – Christlike Attributes Doctrine and Covenants Section 4: 1 Now behold, a amarvelous work is about to come forth among the children of men. 2 Therefore, O ye that embark in the aservice of God, see that ye bserve him with all your heart, might, mind and strength, that ye may stand cblameless before - [Preparing Investigators for Baptism and Confirmation (Ch 13 MPM) and Hard Question: What are Garments?](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/preparing-investigators-for-baptism-and-confirmation-ch-13-mpm-and-hard-question-what-are-garments/) - Chapter 13 - PREPARING INVESTIGATORS FOR BAPTISM AND CONFIRMATION As investigators come unto Christ and prepare to become Church members, they must understand the covenants associated with saving ordinances and be willing to make and keep these sacred obligations. D&C 130:21 - 21 And when we obtain any ablessing from God, it is bybobedience to that law upon which - [How to share the gospel online (Ch 6 PEM) and Share the truth at Work (Ch 4 PEM) and Hard Question - Evolution/Age of Earth](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/how-to-share-the-gospel-online-ch-6-pem-and-share-the-truth-at-work-ch-4-pem-and-hard-question-evolutionage-of-earth/) - How to Share the Gospel Online From Chapter 6 PEM: In 2005 a study was done, and 80-90% of websites that talked about Mormons were anti-Mormon. Some blogs written created in response to this study are mormonperspectives.com (accept new bloggers and helpers), nextdoormormon.com (looking for new and returning members to blog with them) and reallifeanswers.org - [The Hard Questions Part 2: Are Mormons Christians: Trinity, Cult or not, why don't we use crosses, worship different Jesus, Church history misunderstandings](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/the-hard-questions-part-2-are-mormons-christians-trinity-cult-or-not-why-dont-we-use-crosses-worship-different-jesus-church-history-misunderstandings/) - Are Mormons Christians: http://makinglifeablisscomplete.blogspot.com/2014/05/are-mormons-christians-question-that.html Why Mormons don’t wear crosses: https://www.lds.org/new-era/1996/09/qa-questions-and-answers?lang=eng President Gordon B. Hinckley explained the reason in a talk delivered in general conference. He told about talking to a Protestant minister following a temple open house. 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Our faith is and always has been integrated, and people of all cultures, races and ethnicities have always - [Faith and Conversion (Ch 10 MPM)and Hard Question - Need for baptism and other ordinances](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/faith-and-conversion-ch-10-mpmand-hard-question-need-for-baptism-and-other-ordinances/) - Chapter 10 – Faith and Conversion Bible Dictionary – Faith excerpts Faith is to hope for things which are not seen, but which are true (Heb. 11:1; Alma 32:21), and must be centered in Jesus Christ in order to produce salvation. To have faith is to have confidence in something or someone. The Lord has revealed - [The Restoration and Coming Forth of New Scripture (Ch 9 MPM) and pages 30-34 (PEM), and Hard Questions - No More Bible and Where are the Gold Plates](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/the-restoration-and-coming-forth-of-new-scripture-ch-9-mpm-and-pages-30-34-pem-and-hard-questions-no-more-bible-and-where-are-the-gold-plates/) - The Power of Everyday Missionaries – pages 30-34 Some may think it is strange that Mormons are good, clear-minded people but we believe such weird things. Bro Christensen recommends to respond to this paradox is to look at the questions we ask vs the questions other religious people ask rather than comparing the answers we - [Prophets and Apostasy (Ch 8 MPM) and Hard Question - False Prophets](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/prophets-and-apostasy-ch-8-mpm-and-hard-question-false-prophets/) - Chapter 8 - Prophets and Apostasy Role of a Prophet: President Gordon B. Hinckley: “Ancient prophets warned not only of things to come, but, more importantly, they became the revealers of truth to people. It was they who pointed the way men should live if they were to be happy and find peace in their - [Heavenly Father's Plan (Ch 7 MPM) and Hard Question - The Fall was a part of God's plan](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/heavenly-fathers-plan-ch-7-mpm-and-hard-question-the-fall-was-a-part-of-gods-plan/) - True to the Faith says this about the Plan of Salvation: In the premortal existence, Heavenly Father prepared a plan to enable us to become like Him and receive a fulness of joy. The scriptures refer to this plan as “the plan of salvation” (Alma 24:14; Moses 6:62), “the great plan of happiness” (Alma 42:8), - [Teaching Toward Conversion (Ch 7-10 PEM), We Learn to teach “By Study and Also by Faith,” Part 1 and 2(Ch 5-6 MPM)](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/teaching-toward-conversion-ch-7-10-pem-we-learn-to-teach-by-study-and-also-by-faith-part-1-and-2ch-5-6-mpm/) - Chapter 5 – We Learn to teach By Study and Also By Faith Part 1 As a counselor in the Primary general presidency, Sister Anne G. Wirthlin taught that a pattern of pondering deepens understanding: “The Savior has given us a pattern to follow as we study the scriptures. We hear the word, we ponder - [The Companionship of the Holy Ghost (Ch 3 MPM) and Teaching by the Spirit (Ch 4 MPM)](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/the-companionship-of-the-holy-ghost-ch-3-mpm-and-teaching-by-the-spirit-ch-4-mpm/) - Chapter 3 - The Companionship of the Holy Ghost The Holy Ghost Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles described some of the duties of the Holy Ghost: “The Holy Ghost is the third member of the Godhead, a personage of spirit. He is the Comforter, the Spirit of God, the - [Using Time Wisely to Bring People to Christ (Ch 12 MPM) and Finding People for the Missionaries to Teach (Ch 1-3, 5 PEM, not pages 30-34)](https://ablisscomplete.com/teaching-gospel-lessons/using-time-wisely-to-bring-people-to-christ-ch-12-mpm-and-finding-people-for-the-missionaries-to-teach-ch-1-3-5-pem-not-pages-30-34/) - MPM Chapter 12 – Using Time Wisely to Bring People to Christ President Gordon B. 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